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Old October 17th, 2018, 09:20 PM   #1
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Question Does Size Really Matter?

I know, I know, this is probably the last topic of discussion you want to see in here, but I ask that you hear me out.

I've always been stricken with feelings of inferiority, though recently they have risen to unprecedented levels that dominate my life, and this is one of those topics that incessantly rings in my head when I compare myself to others. I see myself as a bit of a control freak, so when I can't better myself in a certain way I get depressed. But is bigger really better?


If you feel self conscious about your size, then I would suggest not reading on unless you know that you can handle it.


I'm always told that size doesn't matter, that one guy can be just as good as another guy who is 5 inches bigger. Sometimes being too big can even be a hinderance in sex. However, my argument is that these claims don't tell the whole story.

Being a young and gay individual I probably pay more attention to dicks than I should. People are treated very differently when others know what they're packing. Those who are larger generally receive more praise and compliments, albeit they may be from individuals who only care about their size rather than the individual. This is another potential disadvantage of being big: some people will only want you for your size, not who you are. Despite this, it is largely true that larger guys will be more "liked" and sometimes more appealing, though the latter is not entirely true. I can't say for certain if it is just for some individuals, including myself, but it seems as though we are naturally more likely to find larger guys more appealing, which I see as a major advantage for being big.

After writing this, I'm beginning to realize how trivial all of this may sound, but when I get a question in my head I can't let it go until I have a logical resolution. Again, I apologize for the vulgar nature of the question being posed, but hopefully it is seen as a legitimately debatable question which suits the theme of this particular forum.

And so, in your opinion, regardless of how insignificant the issue may seem in the grand scheme of life and human characteristics, is bigger really better, and does size matter?
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Old October 17th, 2018, 10:32 PM   #2
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it depends on personal Preference really, some people like bigger, others like smaller, personally i like anything that isn't overtly small, i.e 4in and up but i know people that have 4 as a preference and some that like 7and up.
in summary, yes and no, bigger can be better but sometimes it isn't.

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Old October 18th, 2018, 09:14 AM   #3
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Size does not matter lol!
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Old October 18th, 2018, 09:23 AM   #4
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I was glad to read the sensible replies of two girls....and quite relieved too!
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Old October 18th, 2018, 10:11 AM   #5
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I was glad to read the sensible replies of two girls....and quite relieved too!
*gives a perplexed stare* um, it's right there, that little blue thing on the left hand side... it's not that hard...

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Old October 18th, 2018, 02:08 PM   #6
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well for one thing you're asking from the perspective of a gay male...and I honestly have no clue how most gay males feel about the size of their partner. But I imagine it's going to be mixed like is with women who are straight and engaging with their male partners. Is having a big penis necessary for good sex? In most cases, no...but as is probably with gay males, some women might enjoy a bigger penis for a variety of reasons.

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Old October 18th, 2018, 03:11 PM   #7
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Ultimately it's down to the girl and her opinions. However i don't think size should matter. All that matters is that it does the job and works well.
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Old October 18th, 2018, 04:39 PM   #8
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Size matters. Absolutely.
But which size matters to the partner, depends on that partner. Some like big, some like small. Some don't care.
"Bigger is better" is true for some, "smaller is better" for others.
If someone truly loves you, any size will do.

Some advice: if you want a decent relationship, stay away from people who say "I'll only date/sleep with/go out with you if your penis is big". They're not in it for you as a person, but for you as a sex toy, sooner or later to be discarded for a new one.

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Old October 18th, 2018, 05:33 PM   #9
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I understand what you're trying to say and where you're coming from as, indeed as stated by others, in heterosexual engagements size rarely matters since there's nothing to compare to so as long as it does the job, no one cares too much. When it's a gay engagement, there's always some level of competition between the two even if they don't actually care too much about size, meaning there's always the fear of being the smaller of the two, even more so in a 'top' that's naturally meant to be bigger. It's no secret that body issues are quite common in gay men, possibly more so than in straight men due to the conscious and subconscious competition with each other to be more attractive and more impressive than our sexual partner.
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Old October 19th, 2018, 02:35 AM   #10
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Cannot really comment on gay men because I am not gay, but from my personal experiences with girls, it rarely mattered.
I can understand the competition between gay partners, but if you strive to be better than your partner or feel inferior to him, that is a toxic relationship.

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Old October 19th, 2018, 03:26 PM   #11
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There'll never be a final answer to this. Some girls or gay guys will want super sized monster penises, while others don't care. I'm one of those who don't care.

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Old October 19th, 2018, 08:34 PM   #12
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Since this is a guy gay discussion, I won't say anything snarky.
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Old October 19th, 2018, 11:02 PM   #13
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Looking at this not from my stand point but societies standpoint maybe size does matter in the same way that a certain "look" created by the media matters.

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Old October 20th, 2018, 08:05 AM   #14
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Looking at this not from my stand point but societies standpoint maybe size does matter in the same way that a certain "look" created by the media matters.
I agree. Also I think porn plays a big role. People see the way porn actors look and how big their penises are and how their bodies look and get the idea that they should look like that too.
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Old October 20th, 2018, 07:12 PM   #15
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Who's such self-conscious and therefore easily gets influenced by stuff as it's shown in porn vids, should simply not watching porns.





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Old November 4th, 2018, 04:07 AM   #16
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I am a young, gay, and self conscious guy. I worry about what other people would think of me but I wouldn't really care about another guys size.
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Old November 4th, 2018, 04:59 AM   #17
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I'm not gay but i do think that when someone likes you, whether it is just a friend or your lover, they like you for who you are, not for your dick size.
Otherwise they're not worthy to be your friend or boyfriend
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Old November 17th, 2018, 07:24 PM   #18
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I mean so long as it’s long enough to get inside him or her that’s what counts
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