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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:14 PM   #21
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Well, I wouldn't say I'm 100% happy either. My issue is looking in the mirror. That's the ONE thing.. I can NEVER see the person others see. I always see a huge, disgusting, obese person. :/
same. even though theres no way on this earth im anywhere near obease, i'm actually borederline underweight according to BMI.
i still see fat though. crazy huh.

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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:18 PM   #22
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same. even though theres no way on this earth im anywhere near obease, i'm actually borederline underweight according to BMI.
i still see fat though. crazy huh.
Yeah, there's no way in heck you're fat.. I know that it would take a lot more than just that to convince you otherwise (I know how stubborn this type of thing is). It's interesting, I look at pictures back when I was underweight. At the time, I thought I was fat. But I look at them now, and think how sickly I looked then!
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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:19 PM   #23
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Yeah, there's no way in heck you're fat.. I know that it would take a lot more than just that to convince you otherwise (I know how stubborn this type of thing is). It's interesting, I look at pictures back when I was underweight. At the time, I thought I was fat. But I look at them now, and think how sickly I looked then!
yeah i do that. i saw a picture of myself last summer, i actually said to a friend
wooow. i look really thin in that O_O

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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:25 PM   #24
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yeah i do that. i saw a picture of myself last summer, i actually said to a friend
wooow. i look really thin in that O_O
That's why I like pictures... SOMETIMES they help me see myself for how I really am. Or more likely I'll just think it was a "lucky angle".
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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:26 PM   #25
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That's why I like pictures... SOMETIMES they help me see myself for how I really am. Or more likely I'll just think it was a "lucky angle".
yeah i get that an awful lot.

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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:29 PM   #26
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yeah i get that an awful lot.
So basically now I'm kinda at a loss for what to do.. I dunno what else I could possibly do to help me think of myself positively.
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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:31 PM   #27
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So basically now I'm kinda at a loss for what to do.. I dunno what else I could possibly do to help me think of myself positively.
guess you have to come to realise that everyone is beautiful in thier own way. and such like. i wish i could help, but i guess you have to do things that make you feel good about yourself, give yourself something to be proud of.

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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:34 PM   #28
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guess you have to come to realise that everyone is beautiful in thier own way. and such like. i wish i could help, but i guess you have to do things that make you feel good about yourself, give yourself something to be proud of.
Yeah, that's an idea. I've felt virtually stripped of any positive qualities. Years and years of bullying and negative talk in general from people have caused me to believe there's NOTHING positive about me. lol sorry I'm totally taking over this thread...
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Old May 31st, 2010, 06:43 PM   #29
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Yeah, that's an idea. I've felt virtually stripped of any positive qualities. Years and years of bullying and negative talk in general from people have caused me to believe there's NOTHING positive about me. lol sorry I'm totally taking over this thread...
yeah we're going off topic best leave this convo where it lies,
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Old May 31st, 2010, 09:01 PM   #30
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When I look into the mirror I see oozing fat. How am I supposed to love myself when I can't even look at myself without cringing?
that's not you, eating and exercising is the best solution.
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Old May 31st, 2010, 09:34 PM   #31
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that's not you, eating and exercising is the best solution.
Well no, not necessarily. I find it more likely that she just has a really distorted view on her body. I'm willing to bet everyone here who's said that they see themselves as "fat" aren't fat at all...but they can't see that.
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Old June 1st, 2010, 03:30 AM   #32
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Well no, not necessarily. I find it more likely that she just has a really distorted view on her body. I'm willing to bet everyone here who's said that they see themselves as "fat" aren't fat at all...but they can't see that.
probaby very true.
we find it easy to pick out own flaws. out.
my best friend does it, she thinks she's fat.
shes a UK size 8 for heavens sake.
we all look in the mirror and don't see outselves.
we see flaws.
but everyone has them, and part of accepting our bodies is kinda realising and accepting that.

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Old June 1st, 2010, 06:06 PM   #33
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I think it's safe to say that we all can be at least a little uncomfortable with our images sometimes.
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Old June 1st, 2010, 06:08 PM   #34
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probaby very true.
we find it easy to pick out own flaws. out.
my best friend does it, she thinks she's fat.
shes a UK size 8 for heavens sake.
we all look in the mirror and don't see outselves.
we see flaws.
but everyone has them, and part of accepting our bodies is kinda realising and accepting that.
Majority of the time, the flaws are sooooo incredibly small, that nobody really notices them. But to us, they seem HUGE. I find that so hard to accept sometimes..but I know it's true
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