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Old June 13th, 2016, 09:55 AM   #361
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I am still in middle school so this kind of thing still happens to me.

Ok so in 2nd grade lice was going around. I had gotten it and then when I was lice free, I went back to school and this kid was telling the whole class I was infected and to not go near me.

Next: In third grade, I had no friends. Kids would taunt me for what I was wearing, and a kid threatened to punch out my retainers.

In fourth grade the popular girls started. They would tease me for being to "adult" because I understood politics.

In fifth grade there was an ant on the table. No big deal. Then some girls decided that I caused the ant to come because I smelled and that I was purposely trying to gross them out.

In sixth grade not much bullying happened. However, my only friend moved so I was pretty lonely.

In seventh grade, I was out on the playground near my school. About five boys came up (one was the boy from 2nd grade) and started throwing big rocks at me. One landed on my foot and broke it. I was on crutches for a week.

This year (8th grade) So first the popular girls were calling my autistic friend a retard. Then, one kid sexually harassed me by telling the school we had sex when we didn't. Then, that same kid said he had quit our gym assignment. He then told the teacher we wouldn't let him participate and got me in trouble. Then, while running the mile a few days ago, the kid laughed at me because I was slow. I had a bad ankle and lung problems. He shoved me into a pole and sprained my wrist. I am currently in a sling.

I reported all of these cases to the principals. In all the cases, they either didn't believe me, believed me and just didn't care or called it a misunderstanding.

Then people go and tell me that kind of bullying only happens in movies. AND my town supposedly has one of the best bullying prevention systems in the country.

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You could always try the police. Sometimes you've gotta give the school a wake-up call so they'll realize that bullying is serious.

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Usually, the cases of bullying I experience are somewhat small and typically not physical.

This one boy grabbed my ass last year and made me so fucking angry. I almost reported him but ended up not doing it and instead just switching seats in that class. He did more than just that to make me mad, though. He made fun of my acne and was racist to others. He always spoke out of place and insulted people.

This other kid in my creative writing class would physically assault me, not punching or anything most of the time, but grabbing my arm, threatening me, calling me a pussy, etc.. He pissed me off so much and really hurt my self-esteem. I should've reported him.

My advice to anyone who is getting bullied: Report it. Don't be like me and be too afraid. If I get bullied next year, I'm going to report it and try to get the problem solved.

Becca, I know you tried reporting it and I'm so sorry that didn't work.

Try to stay strong and definitely consider the police.

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Old August 10th, 2016, 01:03 PM   #362
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I got bulled because I was ugly and super skinny and had no friends. no one wanted or tried to help me so i was a lone for two years I got in many fights until i start to think about my whole life
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Old October 3rd, 2016, 09:08 PM   #363
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So, this all started happening in 9th grade I think. In gym class to be specific. I'm a small kid so I was not keen on being placed in gym class, but I was placed there anyways. I'm a late-bloomer and having nearly every guy there stare at me struggling with just a few weights was bad enough, but while everyone was changing in the locker room they always made comments about how skinny, short, and weak I was, which didn't make me feel good about myself. There's a lot more but I don't have time to type out the rest right now, so I'll do it in another post or I'll add to this one.

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Old October 3rd, 2016, 09:24 PM   #364
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Last year there was this kid at my school who always acted really rude toward me and tried to embarrass me. I don't have the best sight and he would purposely throw me off so I would run into things, or try to trip me and I almost fell on the stairs a few times because of him. He constantly taunted me and even insulted me in front of my friends, and they all laughed at his jibes which really hurt.

This year a group of people in my grade were basically doing the same thing with teasing me about my sight, plus talking behind my back and overall making me feel like a speck of dirt. My anxiety got so bad in the class we were all in together that I couldn't handle it anymore; I asked to be moved and thankfully it worked out. It's not so bad now and I hope it stays that way.

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Old October 18th, 2016, 07:48 AM   #365
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I've been overweight for most of my life, a result of having pretty terrible coping mechanisms. There was one kid who bullied me pretty relentlessly when I was in year 5. He would call me fat and push me around a lot, nothing too serious in comparison to some of these, but it was rough for me. Mum encouraged me to be passive, but not long before I left the school he started insulting my loved ones. It stopped after one incident. I was at the window when he shoved me, at that point I was upset about something else, so he derailed me. I threw him into the window, and him not being the lightest kid either, went through it. He didn't admit that I'd dropped him, and ended up getting the bill. Come to think of it, he had a pretty terrible home life. Hope he got his shit together eventually. He was a nice kid when he actually spoke to me .
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Old April 24th, 2017, 04:07 PM   #366
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That sounds like hell. That reminds me of when I was in third grade and everyone would be nasty to me because I ate my snot. Well, that does sound kind of gross, but should you really have teased me for it? Even the kids that didn't bully me would treat me horribly. Example: Someone drops their paper. I pick it up and hand it to them. They slap it out of my hand and shriek, "get your nasty hand off my paper!" Then they'd pick it up. Really. The worst memory I have is when a 5th grader threatened to report me to a health insurance company and evict my family. Despite the fact that that was a ridiculous threat, I was terrified.

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p.s. Not every bad bullying story comes from Middle or High School. I heard of a kid who was nine, and an 11 year old kid tried to rape him in the bathroom. He was really traumatized after that.
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Old April 26th, 2017, 03:19 AM   #367
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That sounds like hell. That reminds me of when I was in third grade and everyone would be nasty to me because I ate my snot. Well, that does sound kind of gross, but should you really have teased me for it? Even the kids that didn't bully me would treat me horribly. Example: Someone drops their paper. I pick it up and hand it to them. They slap it out of my hand and shriek, "get your nasty hand off my paper!" Then they'd pick it up. Really. The worst memory I have is when a 5th grader threatened to report me to a health insurance company and evict my family. Despite the fact that that was a ridiculous threat, I was terrified.

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p.s. Not every bad bullying story comes from Middle or High School. I heard of a kid who was nine, and an 11 year old kid tried to rape him in the bathroom. He was really traumatized after that.
Yeah I actually think being bullied younger has a strong affect the younger it occurs to you due to the emotional ties and the developing neurology of the developing brain.

My story is when I moved for the first time in 2nd grade, I was not really accepted into any social group, and yet the other kids would invade my personal space and also pick/steal supplies from my supply box without asking. I would be silently poked during "silent reading or silent testing time" and if you replied verbally the teacher just assumed you were cheating or talking. I endured it for a while.

As I got older and wiser; for any physical injuries I took a before the day started picture and an after the school day picture to document injuries as proof in an organized journal, and I made copies. I took such photo evidence to the teacher, if the teacher made it clear they didn't care, I threatened escalation to the principle and if I got ignored on that level it would be escalated to the school district and I'd have a personal family lawyer sue everyone.

Gym class actually got so bad a few years back freshmen year of high school, even indirectly due to other people's drama, I just created my own workout routine and paid a gym membership with my babysitting money for private PE and got it approved by the school district. I wasn't the only person to do this, gym class bullies are really cruel.

My biggest and worst bullying case was actually not by a student peer, but by a teacher who practiced public humiliation tactics in-class if you got a question wrong or wore something he didn't approve of or sent the wrong message. We had a parent-student teacher-vice principle conference, he finished out that year and took early retirement after that. I suspect I wasn't the only student who complained about him.


Also in Junior High, there was this science teacher who a lot of us suspected arranged the seating so all of the pretty girls (developing boobs) were in the front row for his viewing pleasure and this was never proved but among the girls we all talked and felt a similar creepy vibe from him, although that's not enough evidence to file a complaint. To my knowledge he never touched anybody, just leered at us hungrily when he didn't think we'd notice.

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Old June 10th, 2017, 08:07 AM   #368
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In primary school, my friends and I would get into disagreements because they didnít like someone I wanted to be friends with. They suddenly cut me off for two weeks and started avoiding me and whispering to each other when I could see them. This happened a few times throughout the course of primary school. I would have to seek refuge in the library during these falling outs.
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In primary school, my friends and I would get into disagreements because they didnít like someone I wanted to be friends with. They suddenly cut me off for two weeks and started avoiding me and whispering to each other when I could see them. This happened a few times throughout the course of primary school. I would have to seek refuge in the library during these falling outs.
Understandable. Part of my bullying when I was younger was when my 6th grade friends were extremely abusive. They'd be nice to me for a while and rant to me for a while, but later they'd say hurtful things like "You're annoying," "You're disgusting," and would bully me with other kids. I have worse trauma from when I was younger and I was bullied.
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Since I am a timid large individual who loves geeky things and hates sports of course I am the number one target already being given the stamp of gay even though I havenít come out or anything. As the newest target, I discovered that on the roster of bullied people since I am snitch and always tells my teachers if someone threatens me with violence, I discovered that I am a high rated and valued target.

There was this game of bullies where they would simulate a basket ball game by throwing garbage on their targets food and drinks (which would render it inedible) from across the cafeteria without the target knowing who threw the stuff and I got informed by a friend that I had the record breaking 50 points if any shit landed in my food or drink 75 points if I blamed and told on the wrong person. Take note this was about 2-3 times the score they would get for a typical target.

Of course when I found out I told on the bullies and all the suspects got rounded up. The consequence of this. I couldnít use the bathroom for the next 6-7 months of freshman year. Thankfully, the dad of the lead bully got called in after the parents of the bullied ones united against them. the dad threatened to beat the shit out of him. I donít get physical threats anymore and the bully repeated the grade for academic reasons but when we see each other around i still get some threats.
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Since I am a timid large individual who loves geeky things and hates sports of course I am the number one target already being given the stamp of gay even though I havenít come out or anything. As the newest target, I discovered that on the roster of bullied people since I am snitch and always tells my teachers if someone threatens me with violence, I discovered that I am a high rated and valued target.

There was this game of bullies where they would simulate a basket ball game by throwing garbage on their targets food and drinks (which would render it inedible) from across the cafeteria without the target knowing who threw the stuff and I got informed by a friend that I had the record breaking 50 points if any shit landed in my food or drink 75 points if I blamed and told on the wrong person. Take note this was about 2-3 times the score they would get for a typical target.

Of course when I found out I told on the bullies and all the suspects got rounded up. The consequence of this. I couldnít use the bathroom for the next 6-7 months of freshman year. Thankfully, the dad of the lead bully got called in after the parents of the bullied ones united against them. the dad threatened to beat the shit out of him. I donít get physical threats anymore and the bully repeated the grade for academic reasons but when we see each other around i still get some threats.
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Old June 9th, 2018, 08:26 PM   #372
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I have been bullied ever since I started kindergarten and up till now.
Just because I look different than most of the student in my school,just because I'm Korean. I just hope my little brother don't have to go through this just because he is Korean.

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Old October 29th, 2018, 07:53 PM   #373
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After moving around a lot and living in group homes you kind of get tough and hard. Then there is the time I was living on the street I got harder and meaner when I had to be.

I moved in with my Dad this summer and I was going to be going to a new High School as a Freshman due to my grades and how far behind I was.

The first few days a few of the girls started to pick on me. Mistake one, First day in PE one saw my scars and called me a cutter. The girls did not know the cut scars on my boobs were for a girl cutting in a group home and the ones on the back of my legs was from a girl getting mad at for hitting on her man. I got them one of the times I ran away from a group home. Mistake two.

One of the girls pushed me and her friends were in a circle. The girl that pushed me laughed and push a second time. I looked at the girls and leaned back and punched the girl that was the leader with all my power right on her nose. I felt the nose squish and blood flowed. I looked at the other girls and asked Whos Next. I really thought they might try and jump me. The other girls looked so surprised. By now the PE teacher showed up. Told me to get dressed and go to the office. I walked in the office and before they said anything I asked them to call my Dad. The girl I hit went to the ER. Yea I broke her nose.
We waited for my Dad to show up and I told him what was going on. The school told him I may have to be sent to a "School for Troubled Teens". My Dad told them they should and that he can use the money from the law suite. It seems he stopped at the Police Dept. and talked to a friend of his. Seems the girls had a rep for trouble. He told them I will take the 3 days out of school and that will be it. The school backed down.

So I got 3 days off with all my classes sent to me so I would not miss anything. He later contacted the girls parents (well his lawyer) and let them know if there are any more problems they would sue.

Well it was over, The girls broke up after the leader looked like a Racoon for a few weeks. No one has bothered me and a few other girls made friends with me and what happened.
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