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Old February 15th, 2007, 11:16 PM   #1
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Exclamation Please give me advice on this one (private story)

Hello, I feel very tight cornered,while typing this because I remember this.

Me and my mom have a housemate, we share the living room, kitchen and bathroom. he was very mean to me when I was little, (dont blame on my mom, because, well... its a little bit private) and when I was 11 years old, i saw him once masturbating (only his penis showing) and watching pornography, my mom was away, and he had his door open. he knew I came out. Somehow with words he lured me in. I tried to act like I didnt know he was masturbating or watching porn. I heard him masturbating behind me. I tried to act it out. sooo.... hes 35 or 36 years old, my mom just knows (cause i told her) that I saw him watching porn, but I didnt tell about the male part.
Next, when I was 12, I was home alone again (with the roommate) and when he awoke, I saw him naked (I MEAN IT, totally NAKED ) no underwear or ANYTHING he looked in the window to see if my moms car is there. I quickly ran to my bedroom, and again tried to act out that I didnt see him. He tried luring me in again to the living room (probably for me to see him naked). And a couple of months after ( i was still 12) he was telling me all this stuff that you have to have sex with an older guy, not my age, and that when you actually suck in the sperm, he said its a good tingling feeling.

GUYS i just dont know what to do!!! plz help me this is SERIOUS. My mom never knew this, im too embarrassed to tell her. ANd you know, this guy rommate helped her with the legal documents and bought us VERY expensive stuff and took care of our animals when we werent at home. So I really cant say this to my mom. BUT PLZZZZZZZZZZZ tell me ANY advice YOU THINK OF WHEN YOU READ THIS. because, it all depends on me, i could call the police and tell them everything, i could do lots of things he'll feel bad after.

SO make NO haste, help me help mememememe.

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Old February 16th, 2007, 09:09 AM   #2
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you should tell the ploice he sounds like some kind of pervert

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Old February 16th, 2007, 06:17 PM   #3
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Does this belong in Puberty for Girls?
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Old February 16th, 2007, 06:20 PM   #4
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No better place for it really, JNJ. So I think it's fine here.

As to your problem, all I can say is that you should talk to the police, maybe a school counselor first, talking directly to the police could be really intimidating. But you dont need to let this continue, this man is obviously perverted and some kind of child molester. Please dont let him keep making you uncomfortable - no matter how much he has helped you and your mother, no amount of help or things or money gives him the right to sexually exploit you.

I DO NOT GO ON HERE ANYMORE. I HAVE LEFT THIS PLACE FOR GOOD AND DON'T INTEND ON COMING BACK. PLEASE DON'T FRIEND REQUEST ME, PRIVATE MESSAGE ME, OR ANYTHING BECAUSE I WILL NEVER SEE IT AND YOU'LL NEVER GET A RESPONSE. THANK YOU.
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Old February 17th, 2007, 08:18 AM   #5
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Jess is right. You should probably go to a counselor before anything else. You can even try to resolve this problem, although unlikely maybe somehow you could get the housemate to stop annoying and harassing you. If this harassment continues and a counselor isn't helping than my only advice is to go to the police.

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Old February 17th, 2007, 10:40 AM   #6
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As everyone else has said he has no right to make you feel uncomfortable. You often see with paedos etc that they befriend the child and their carers just to get close to the child without suspiscion. Tell someone now before things escalate.


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Old February 17th, 2007, 12:23 PM   #7
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hey guys thanks for advice, thats what I was thinking, that hes getting close to me by helping and all that stuff.
Im a violinist, and I have already have my own website, and have given concerts with orchestras.
do you think that hes trying to get money from me if he gets close to me??

I forgot to tell you something, when I was like 8-9 years old we had a talk about his enemy, and somehow he told me that maybe when I will 18 y.o. he can marry me. I got a really weird feeling(closer to bad feeling) to him. If ill be famous, he might be my husband by trying to have sexually contact (WHICH WILL NEVER HAPPEN) and that way be rich together.
just a though

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Old February 17th, 2007, 01:25 PM   #8
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AWKWARD... but possible... Get him out of your life as quickly as possible. This guy is a pedophile, and for exposing himself to you, he can get some serious jailtime, go to someone before he gets in your head, or possibly into your pants.

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Old February 17th, 2007, 11:12 PM   #9
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Old February 17th, 2007, 11:21 PM   #10
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If you dont have anything HELPFUL to say, then DONT SAY IT at all.

I DO NOT GO ON HERE ANYMORE. I HAVE LEFT THIS PLACE FOR GOOD AND DON'T INTEND ON COMING BACK. PLEASE DON'T FRIEND REQUEST ME, PRIVATE MESSAGE ME, OR ANYTHING BECAUSE I WILL NEVER SEE IT AND YOU'LL NEVER GET A RESPONSE. THANK YOU.

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Old February 17th, 2007, 11:21 PM   #11
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He was given an infraction

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Old February 17th, 2007, 11:26 PM   #12
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bobby ill do the same to you if you dont shut up
 
Old February 17th, 2007, 11:28 PM   #13
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bobby ill do the same to you if you dont shut up
Deary, Bobby is a moderator and can give you an infraction - you are a regular member, brand new at that - and cant do anything, so you should be quiet.

I DO NOT GO ON HERE ANYMORE. I HAVE LEFT THIS PLACE FOR GOOD AND DON'T INTEND ON COMING BACK. PLEASE DON'T FRIEND REQUEST ME, PRIVATE MESSAGE ME, OR ANYTHING BECAUSE I WILL NEVER SEE IT AND YOU'LL NEVER GET A RESPONSE. THANK YOU.
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Old February 17th, 2007, 11:30 PM   #14
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well you like guys who look like girls and wear girl pants so you better be quiet
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Old February 17th, 2007, 11:33 PM   #15
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well you like guys who look like girls and wear girl pants so you better be quiet
I sure do, but I wont be quiet about it - Ill tell the world - I LOVE GUYS WHO LOOK LIKE GIRLS AND WEAR GIRL PANTS - YEAHHH!

I DO NOT GO ON HERE ANYMORE. I HAVE LEFT THIS PLACE FOR GOOD AND DON'T INTEND ON COMING BACK. PLEASE DON'T FRIEND REQUEST ME, PRIVATE MESSAGE ME, OR ANYTHING BECAUSE I WILL NEVER SEE IT AND YOU'LL NEVER GET A RESPONSE. THANK YOU.
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Old February 17th, 2007, 11:33 PM   #16
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Stop. Stop. Don't post in this topic unless you have something to help the original poster.

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Old February 18th, 2007, 02:55 PM   #17
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guys, this is no help to me, not being rude, but this is a serious question, and youre talking about something else. go to the chat place. PLZ dont thinkim being rude

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Old February 18th, 2007, 03:02 PM   #18
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Sorry hun!

Like I said earlier you need to do something immediately. Please dont be afraid to talk to someone you trust, or someone like a school counselor. You do not have to let this continue, he has no right to do what he is doing no matter how much help he has given your family. I highly advise you to see a school counselor as soon as possible to get this taken care of, he has no right to sexually exploit you no matter what he gives you.

I DO NOT GO ON HERE ANYMORE. I HAVE LEFT THIS PLACE FOR GOOD AND DON'T INTEND ON COMING BACK. PLEASE DON'T FRIEND REQUEST ME, PRIVATE MESSAGE ME, OR ANYTHING BECAUSE I WILL NEVER SEE IT AND YOU'LL NEVER GET A RESPONSE. THANK YOU.
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Old February 18th, 2007, 03:37 PM   #19
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yes please talk to some one!

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Old February 18th, 2007, 03:42 PM   #20
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man i would deff like tell him 2 lay off and watch urself u never know wut he can do i would have to tell my mom this guys could be hostile to you
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