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Old May 16th, 2009, 11:38 PM   #21
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I know, giving credit and appreciating ourselves is not an easy thing actually... But think, everyone always has advantage and disadvantage of their own.. Right? Try to appreciate yourself, it's not always disadvantage in yourself....

And the fact is, there is always people care about you, whoever he/she is. I know that after I left my religion (yeah, this is bad story), but at least I was wrong about judging myself for "nobody care about me" thing. How do I know? Because they suddenly gave reaction (I mean like, surprised), even though I wasn't famous at school or anywhere I am...

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Old May 17th, 2009, 03:58 AM   #22
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I can't fight this anymore....

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Old May 17th, 2009, 08:05 AM   #23
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I believe you can, everybody can, and you also can! Trust in yourself!

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Old May 17th, 2009, 11:17 AM   #24
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I don't trust myself anymore...

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Old May 17th, 2009, 11:23 AM   #25
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Hmm... Why not? Care to tell why?

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Old May 17th, 2009, 12:07 PM   #26
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I don't trust myself because I gave in to cutting last week..something I would normally never even think about doing...

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Old May 18th, 2009, 04:50 AM   #27
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Even if you gave in to cutting, doesn't mean that you are a loser and can't trust yourself.

I believe it's because your emotion is unstable at that moment (if you can still post and seek for advice, that proofs that you are not a failed person and still can be helped), that drives you to do something wrong, such as cutting yourself... Not many people success at first try on doing something, they need to try several, or even many times.

For example : Thomas Alfa Edison, the one who invented the light bulb. He try and failed his experiment around thousand times, but he doesn't give up at all. If he had given up, maybe our world is clouded in darkness...

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Old May 18th, 2009, 10:07 AM   #28
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My emotions are so unstable at the moment...one moment I can be positive...and okay...the next I am negative and I just can't take it anymore. one minute I'm crying and the next I am laughing..it's horrible...I can't take so many ups and downs...

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Old May 18th, 2009, 07:59 PM   #29
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Hmm... Emotion stability problem, eh? Well... I got the same problem (I tend to get angry without clear reason)

I believe you need to think positive or do something that you really enjoy. My emotion are usually stable everytime I do that... Well, what I really trying to say is : Whenever you're feeling down, try to take out your feeling by doing "something" (it depends on yourself. For me, playing games or designing graphics does the tricks)

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Old May 18th, 2009, 08:12 PM   #30
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It's really quite simple.

DONT CUT YOURSELF! IF YOU DON'T WANT TOO, YOU WONT.

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Old May 19th, 2009, 05:45 AM   #31
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But it really isn't that simple...you can say that but I may have no conntrol over whether I cut really...I get what your saying but it is not just that simple for some people.

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Old May 19th, 2009, 11:09 AM   #32
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Well, Bluearmy sure got some points in his/her post...

Yeah, it seems not simple, maybe even hard, but come on, you need to try! And always remember, lose/fail doesn't mean you're a loser. But if you give up, then you will surely never success...

I believe that you want to stop cutting and be proud of yourself, so go for it!! I know you can do it!!!
Just never give up, because that's what most important

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Old May 19th, 2009, 04:12 PM   #33
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Well I am not giving up...yeah there are days when it's hard and I would just as soon rather give up but I can't give up...this life has so much to offer, so much to explore yet. Yeah sure things can be hard at times but it's what makes the good days even sweeter...I'm not going to lie...there are some really really tough days..when there is nothing more that I want to do than cut...those are the days when I need the most encouragement...I really do want to stop cutting...I want to get better...cause I can't keep living this life that I'm living...it just won't work. I know I can do this...when things get bad though I have a hard time believing in myself...

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Old May 20th, 2009, 12:14 AM   #34
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Just remember this, "never give up whatever the situation is" those are my principles. Hope it helps

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Old May 21st, 2009, 10:21 AM   #35
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I am fighting this and I am going to win! I am getting better step by step. I am going to counseling now...and I am getting the help that I need. So I feel a little more motivated to do things now. I am trying things to help me deal with the stress...I think being told that I had to draw or write for 30 minutes everyday just helped me a lot. It's something I can enjoy doing and it's something to look forward to everyday whether or not I am having a bad day or good. So it's really great...Counseling is doing wonders for me.

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Old May 22nd, 2009, 10:21 AM   #36
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I am fighting this and I am going to win!
That's the spirit!

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Old May 22nd, 2009, 10:36 AM   #37
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But here I am slowly giving in...

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Old May 22nd, 2009, 10:48 AM   #38
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But here I am slowly giving in...
Just try so hard not to, try and keep strong, everyone here on VT will help support you through what sounds like a pretty bad time that you're going through.

You might feel like the only thing you can do some days is cut, but you seem like a strong enough person to beat this temptation. Stress can do a lot of things to your mind, and can quite often lead on to depression. It might seem like cutting is the only answer but it isn't; sometimes just ranting out your problems to someone or finding some other way of relieving stress (I think you mentioned drawing / writing for 30 mins a day) can help a lot more than giving in to cutting.

You said that you are fighting this and that you are going to win; well you are Don't let the depression / stress get the better of you, however hard it is try to stay positive through these times, if you ever need to have a rant or just a chat to someone new you can always add me on msn

- Never take anything for face value, never trust the system and never put up with an answer that you don't agree with. It's about time people realised the truth of this world.



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Old May 22nd, 2009, 05:28 PM   #39
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I really appreciate what you said...It helped a lot. Thanks

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