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Old February 22nd, 2018, 05:46 PM   #1
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Is it normal to be pretty vocal when trying anal sex for the first time? My sister said that getting loud is kinda just a normal response to the initial shock so it's best to have total privacy for it.......like no one around at all if possible. That's not always easy to guarantee for us.
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Old February 22nd, 2018, 06:17 PM   #2
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It is quite normal if you moan or make any noises. I remember the first time I tried anal masturbation. I knew I was making noises, but I didnít know how loud. It was embarrassing at first, but Iíve gotten used to it.
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Old February 22nd, 2018, 07:19 PM   #3
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Any sex for the first time! Or anytime as long as you aren't trying to be quiet.

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Old February 22nd, 2018, 07:43 PM   #4
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Yeah, it's pretty normal the first time. Remember, it will be a totally new and invasive feeling, and it can be a bit shocking and uncomfortable at first. You should plan for it and get max privacy. That way, if you do get the urge/need to moan or gasp or even scream a little you won't have to worry about who hears you. Trying to be quiet would not be good.

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Old February 22nd, 2018, 10:57 PM   #5
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Danielle15 is right..be in a secluded place if you want privacy otherwise mourning is an involuntary outburst..quite normal

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Old February 24th, 2018, 09:13 AM   #6
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Seems normal

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Old February 24th, 2018, 12:00 PM   #7
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Yeah, it's pretty normal the first time. Remember, it will be a totally new and invasive feeling, and it can be a bit shocking and uncomfortable at first. You should plan for it and get max privacy. That way, if you do get the urge/need to moan or gasp or even scream a little you won't have to worry about who hears you. Trying to be quiet would not be good.
Great advice! being vocal with anal is one way of showing your partner that thing are or arent going as planed or might be to much for right that time.

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Old February 24th, 2018, 12:12 PM   #8
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Great advice! being vocal with anal is one way of showing your partner that thing are or arent going as planed or might be to much for right that time.
My god! Yes!! Haha! I wrote about my first experiences in a survey here and I DEFINITELY had to be vocal with that penis

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I've never done anal but I am always very loud when I'm having sex. I had my first time at a boy's house and we were alone, I moaned a lot.
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I moaned pretty loud the first time I masturbated anally. It was a whole new enjoyable feeling. I’ve never had anal sex, but I know if and when I do, I’ll be pretty loud so it’s definitely best to have total privacy or moan/scream into a pillow like I did.
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Old February 24th, 2018, 10:32 PM   #11
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Fingering myself anally is a complete different excitement. I tried it few months back, what I really liked about it is the pleasure is completely from the tingling. But ya there is a difference between one or two fingers and a guy's penis. I tried 2 or 3 times with my boyfriend and was not able to have it for long time, screaming may be one way to tackle it.
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Old February 25th, 2018, 04:53 PM   #12
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I've not had anal yet either, tho prolly will soon. But when everyone says vocal, what do u mean? Moaning? Screaming? And from pleasure or pain?
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Old February 27th, 2018, 05:56 PM   #13
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I moaned pretty loud the first time I masturbated anally. It was a whole new enjoyable feeling. Iíve never had anal sex, but I know if and when I do, Iíll be pretty loud so itís definitely best to have total privacy or moan/scream into a pillow like I did.
My philosophy is that it has to go somewhere, whether pleasure or pain. It's a release mechanism, like a reflex. Being vocal is totally normal. Trying to keep things bottled up would IMO be very hard and uncomfortable. If you are planning to have anal sex for the first time you may indeed scream some or moan so def have total privacy or use a pillow.

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Old February 28th, 2018, 07:03 AM   #14
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It's best to have lots of privacy any time you do anything sexual so this definitely wouldn't be any different
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Old February 28th, 2018, 10:44 AM   #15
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It's best to have lots of privacy any time you do anything sexual so this definitely wouldn't be any different
Totally agree, but it's hard when you have parents who work from home or run a business nearby. Not to mention siblings. There always seem to be somebody nearby, or coming and going. So we're always at risk of being interrupted or heard.
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Totally agree, but it's hard when you have parents who work from home or run a business nearby. Not to mention siblings. There always seem to be somebody nearby, or coming and going. So we're always at risk of being interrupted or heard.
Ya i totally understand. It's hard when family always seems to be around. I've definitely been in the same situation where you're worried about being seen or heard
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Old February 28th, 2018, 12:22 PM   #17
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Ya i totally understand. It's hard when family always seems to be around. I've definitely been in the same situation where you're worried about being seen or heard
Yep. I heard my sister's first time and it freaked out both of us. It's hard enough for us to plan anything intimate, especially something like that. I don't think she expected to be so loud at first, and just wasn't sure if that was typical or not. Kinda helps me to know what to expect and plan the best I can.
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I can be pretty vocal at times with any kind of sexual activity so I totally get it. But it's hard to get a lot of privacy at home too which is super annoying
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Ya i totally understand. It's hard when family always seems to be around. I've definitely been in the same situation where you're worried about being seen or heard
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Totally agree, but it's hard when you have parents who work from home or run a business nearby. Not to mention siblings. There always seem to be somebody nearby, or coming and going. So we're always at risk of being interrupted or heard.
it is hard to find total privacy for sure. Especially with siblings and friends. I think the pillow idea is a good idea and music too so it helps hide the sex sounds. Thing with anal is that it might be a good idea one day but not the next so its hard to plan exactly when. Or if you do plan something then make sure you have time to do it and dont have to rush it just to say "I did it" because then you will def scream lol

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it is hard to find total privacy for sure. Especially with siblings and friends. I think the pillow idea is a good idea and music too so it helps hide the sex sounds. Thing with anal is that it might be a good idea one day but not the next so its hard to plan exactly when. Or if you do plan something then make sure you have time to do it and dont have to rush it just to say "I did it" because then you will def scream lol
I would just add that it gets even more complicated when it's your first time. Hard to plan and not something you wanna rush.
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