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Old February 8th, 2018, 04:08 PM   #1
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Hi Im openly gay I'm 18. An older guy who is 28 keeps texting me and stuff I think he really likes me and he wants to f**k me. I also like him and I want to do it with him but I'm nervous. what should I do ???
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Old February 8th, 2018, 04:17 PM   #2
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Well there are a couple of things to consider. One, don't do anything unless and until you are ready to do so. Since you are both legally adults, if you both consent to it, then that is a decision for the two of you to make. I would try to get to know him more, make sure you use protection if you do and if you are going to his house, I would let another friend know in advance, just in case he tries doing something to you.

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Old February 8th, 2018, 04:26 PM   #3
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Well there are a couple of things to consider. One, don't do anything unless and until you are ready to do so. Since you are both legally adults, if you both consent to it, then that is a decision for the two of you to make. I would try to get to know him more, make sure you use protection if you do and if you are going to his house, I would let another friend know in advance, just in case he tries doing something to you.
I do know him a bit its my best friends older cousin. She told me he likes me lol but I could tell
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Old February 8th, 2018, 04:27 PM   #4
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I do know him a bit its my best friends older cousin. She told me he likes me lol but I could tell
well if you want to do it with him then do it. your both grown adults, it is your decision to make.

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Old February 8th, 2018, 06:42 PM   #5
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if ur nervous-ur not ready.
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Old February 8th, 2018, 08:45 PM   #6
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If you are worried about it don't do it. If you like him and want to have sex with him then go for it. We can't make the decision for you. Trust your own best judgement man.

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Since you know him and are of age you can if you want. It is up to you.


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Old February 9th, 2018, 02:14 AM   #8
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Hi Im openly gay I'm 18. An older guy who is 28 keeps texting me and stuff I think he really likes me and he wants to f**k me. I also like him and I want to do it with him but I'm nervous. what should I do ???
You're gonna have to make up your mind. Do it if you want to; don't if you don't.
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Old February 10th, 2018, 08:06 AM   #9
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just make sure he is not going to make you do things you don't want there are a lot of creeps out there
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Old February 10th, 2018, 08:56 AM   #10
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Are you still in high school? There's a difference between 18 in HS and 18 out of HS IMO. I'm 18 too But still in HS. While it's cool to think I could legally fuck anyone any age now I still wouldn't date anyone much older since it would be weird. My friends would give me a hard time.
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Old February 10th, 2018, 10:43 AM   #11
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Do you know him in real life? I wouldn't do it if you didn't know him.
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Please very deeply and seriously consider why a 28 year old is interested in an 18 year old. That sounds malicious and creepy, even if it's legal. There is a huge difference in those ten years; that's more than half of your lifespan and almost a third of his. That's an uncomfortable imbalance of experience, in life and in romantic encounters. Please be very, very careful if you're going to proceed with this.

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I previously posted differently, but having thought about it more I have something to had after reading the newer responses.

I previously said that you shouldn't do anything that you are uncomfortable with. If you were totally comfortable with this situation, you wouldn't have asked for advice on it. It sounds to me like you are looking for an out.


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If you both want to do it then talk to each other

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