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Old January 1st, 2018, 06:24 PM   #21
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Don't get an adult involved, trust me, it'll get worse

Ignore him, or find a way to get back at him
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Old January 1st, 2018, 09:00 PM   #22
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You are dating someone who is now a girl (all the girl parts) but wants to become a boy. We don't have any transgender kids in our school so I am confused.

But note that she/he wants to become a boy. Does she then want to date girls or boys?
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Old January 1st, 2018, 09:17 PM   #23
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You are dating someone who is now a girl (all the girl parts) but wants to become a boy. We don't have any transgender kids in our school so I am confused.

But note that she/he wants to become a boy. Does she then want to date girls or boys?
he's dating me so he obviously wants to date boys.
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Old January 2nd, 2018, 11:53 PM   #24
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i have texts from him... no idea how he got my number. but i don't want to ruin his life, so i'm not going to bring it to an adult.
That's really nice of you Max btw
-You could always just threaten to get an adult involved or threaten to hit him and hope he doesn't call your bluff

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Old January 3rd, 2018, 09:43 AM   #25
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I solved this situation once by a classic punch in the face. Admittedly it was at a party, so it's a different situation, but get someone involved, if he persists call the cops on him. Do not punch him or something because he might scream "homophobe".

I am all for punishing this behaviour, be it directed on boys or girls. Besides, cops might not do anything serious to him, maybe just lecture him and his parents on manners and decency, but the thought of having a cop involved would scare me and make me back off, besides, you have ample proof that he has been harassing you.

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Old January 8th, 2018, 06:31 PM   #26
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Hey @max02, did that asshole stoped harassing you?

I understand why you don´t want to involve an adult in the situation. If he hasn´t stopped the best you could do is to talk with him face to face and tell him that he needs to stop (I guess you´ve already done that many times, but you should tell him calmly, yet firmly that he needs to stop because you are feeling harassed). If at this point he´s still harassing you I don´t think that ignoring him will work, plus I can only imagine how unconfortable you feel when he is bothering.

If all the things you´ve done haven´t worked you should speak with a teacher and tell him/her to please solve the situation quietly. He´s still a young boy, so people can understand he´s not making the best choices, but if you don´t make him stop now just imagine what he could do in some years.
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Old January 8th, 2018, 07:35 PM   #27
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So how did it work out Max?
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Old January 8th, 2018, 08:44 PM   #28
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And you've mentioned that you are already dating someone?
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Old January 9th, 2018, 06:54 AM   #29
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he also touches my leg with his leg every once in a while
Nobody should ever touch you if you do not want to be touched. I think you should tell a teacher (or another adult) he is touching you inappropriately.

Alternatively, you could give him one last warning that you are going to tell his parents and the teacher(s) he is touching you inappropriately.
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Old January 11th, 2018, 08:28 PM   #30
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So how did it work out Max?
I switched seats.
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Old January 16th, 2018, 11:50 PM   #31
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Maybe threaten that you will tell the guidance councilor if he doesn't stop but if that doesn't work you may need to get them involved to make it stop even if it's awkward and you don't want to

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Old January 27th, 2018, 07:03 PM   #32
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someone transitioning from a female to a male is a transgender man/boy. my boyfriend is a transboy. he's physically a girl because he's too young to get surgery.
I'd like to understand transgender dating better so I'm not so clueless. So you are a straight male. And your boyfriend plans to someday afford the surgery to physically transition from girl to man/boy. At that point you will be dating a boy in ALL ways (mentally AND physically). At that point won't you be two males dating and be considered gay?
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Old January 27th, 2018, 09:32 PM   #33
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Yeah just tell him to back off and that
he is a disgusting creep. that should do
it. if that doen't work ask a adult for help

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Old January 27th, 2018, 11:18 PM   #34
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I'd like to understand transgender dating better so I'm not so clueless. So you are a straight male. And your boyfriend plans to someday afford the surgery to physically transition from girl to man/boy. At that point you will be dating a boy in ALL ways (mentally AND physically). At that point won't you be two males dating and be considered gay?
yeah but that's like 3-4 years away
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Old January 28th, 2018, 12:04 PM   #35
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I'd like to understand transgender dating better so I'm not so clueless. So you are a straight male. And your boyfriend plans to someday afford the surgery to physically transition from girl to man/boy. At that point you will be dating a boy in ALL ways (mentally AND physically). At that point won't you be two males dating and be considered gay?
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yeah but that's like 3-4 years away
Ya I'm sure it will take time. But I have it right? Even tho you will be two males dating you will consider yourself straight??? Why? Is it simply cuz your bf was born a girl???
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Old January 28th, 2018, 12:38 PM   #36
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Ya I'm sure it will take time. But I have it right? Even tho you will be two males dating you will consider yourself straight??? Why? Is it simply cuz your bf was born a girl???
probably not. i mean, if he has surgery and stops looking like a girl underneath, i'd probably wouldn't find him attractive.
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