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Old January 27th, 2018, 04:36 AM   #1
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Is it normal to think the girl you like is lying to you?
Put into perspective:
This girl said she wants to meet me. Sure, i'll meet you.
I asked if she can meet today or tomorrow, she said I cant today or tomorrow, because today i am going out, tomorrow I am with family.
I can't just say she's lying, but I also can't make her meet me. Is there a way I can find out if she does actually want to meet me or not. Because it seems to always be me asking when she's next free.

I get extremely over reactive when it comes to girls. I think I have done something wrong, I think they are annoyed at me, I think they are "just saying" things for the sake of making me happy. I am extremely insecure.
I have no clue how to find out if she is "just saying" things or not.
Any help would be appreciated.

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Old January 27th, 2018, 04:54 AM   #2
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It’s totally normal to be feeling insecure about it, but I think you are just a bit nervous and reading into it a bit too much. She might just have a busy schedule and have a strong priority for her social and family life.

A lot of girls feel the same about guys but again more often than not they read into it too much. Hold on, be patient, and see where it goes. Good luck

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Old January 27th, 2018, 05:15 AM   #3
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Its totally normal to be feeling insecure about it, but I think you are just a bit nervous and reading into it a bit too much. She might just have a busy schedule and have a strong priority for her social and family life.

A lot of girls feel the same about guys but again more often than not they read into it too much. Hold on, be patient, and see where it goes. Good luck
I will give it a try. As for messaging the girl, if she messages me first I will talk until she no longer replies, but i dont know when the best time is for me to message her first. And for how long should we talk

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Old January 27th, 2018, 06:25 AM   #4
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Not sure but the same thing happend to me too, she kept giving resons for
why we couldn't meet and I eventually had enough and dumpt her.
Don't know if it was right or wrong of me but it's annoying as hell!

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Old January 27th, 2018, 06:37 AM   #5
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Not sure but the same thing happend to me too, she kept giving resons for
why we couldn't meet and I eventually had enough and dumpt her.
Don't know if it was right or wrong of me but it's annoying as hell!
It sure is annoying. We aren't going out yet!

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Old January 27th, 2018, 06:38 AM   #6
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Dont text her first, let her make the first move going forward. If she really wants to meet up shell text you and go from there. If she asked you when, maybe dont come back with a hard day or time. Say something like Im pretty open when are you available?

Replies for today or tomorrow might be to soon for her

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Old January 27th, 2018, 06:42 AM   #7
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Dont text her first, let her make the first move going forward. If she really wants to meet up shell text you and go from there. If she asked you when, maybe dont come back with a hard day or time. Say something like Im pretty open when are you available?

Replies for today or tomorrow might be to soon for her
Alright thank you.

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Old January 27th, 2018, 08:47 AM   #8
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Dont text her first, let her make the first move going forward. If she really wants to meet up shell text you and go from there. If she asked you when, maybe dont come back with a hard day or time. Say something like Im pretty open when are you available?

Replies for today or tomorrow might be to soon for her
completely agree with this just let her come back and you'll be sure she wants to meet you
don't send her too many messages
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Old January 27th, 2018, 09:43 AM   #9
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completely agree with this just let her come back and you'll be sure she wants to meet you
don't send her too many messages
Atm she is shopping, I wont message her until she messages me, work will take my mind of the waiting game so I will check as soon as I am home haha. If I don't get an answer then I will wait till tomorrow.

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Old January 27th, 2018, 12:59 PM   #10
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She said she wants to meet u. I take it as
this is the first time. She is setting the rules
the way I c it. U have to wait for her. Text her
and ask her if she still wants to meet u and when
is it the right time then wait. If u feel she is lying
to u then its not going to work out.
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