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Old December 8th, 2017, 07:00 PM   #1
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My grandad died tonight (peacefully asleep in hospital) but I haven't cried ,I'm extremely upset about his death but haven't cried about it ,I feel guilty about not crying but I hardly ever cry and I honestly don't know how to feel

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Old December 8th, 2017, 09:17 PM   #2
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Your in shock that's all. 5 stages of grief will come. Respect the process don't guilt trip yourself about it.
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Old December 8th, 2017, 09:18 PM   #3
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My grandad died tonight (peacefully asleep in hospital) but I haven't cried ,I'm extremely upset about his death but haven't cried about it ,I feel guilty about not crying but I hardly ever cry and I honestly don't know how to feel
Ava I know just how you feel, my grandpa died just a few days ago. If you want to talk we can

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Old December 8th, 2017, 09:26 PM   #4
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People can grieve differently.
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Old December 8th, 2017, 09:35 PM   #5
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Donít worry about how your feeling right now. Your emotions are basically junk. And itís going to be a while till you sort them out in your head. Itís just how we deal with grief loss and death of loved ones. Itís a normal process. Exactly how itís already been posted about before my post

I lost my dad almost 3 years ago. I didnít cry over his death for months. I held it in for different reasons. But the point is we all do face it in our own time and terms. So donít worry bout how you act physically as compared to maybe other who are crying. There just at a different point in time

Iím really sorry for your loss. Iím sure heís looking down from heaven above with approval of how your handeling this. Cause he knows already how you feel without saying a word.


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Old December 8th, 2017, 11:12 PM   #6
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I know the pain. Feel free to message me if you want to talk

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