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Old December 7th, 2017, 02:52 PM   #1
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Default People think i like a girl when i don't!!

All my friends think I like this girl when i don't. One of them said to my other friends '(my name) likes (girls name)' and now they all believe that i like this girl. When i say i don't like the girl they all start saying i'm going red even though i don't feel myself going red. How do i convince them i don't like her??

EDIT: my 'friend' (don't know if i can call them that anymore) has started spreading that i like her to other people.

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Old December 7th, 2017, 03:14 PM   #2
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Why do you need to convince them? Just ignore it and they'll stop when they don't get anymore reaction from you.
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Old December 7th, 2017, 03:23 PM   #3
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*collective sigh*

People do this just to wind you up because they know it’ll make you react irregardess, and it happens to me a lot too. It’s just a childish thing, as some people don’t realise that people of opposite genders can be friends and it happens to a lot of people. Stop giving them the satisfaction and don’t respond to their little spats and they should stop.

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Old December 7th, 2017, 03:54 PM   #4
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Just look at them and smile
And donít say a word
Theyíll stop eventually
Why not have some fun with it?
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Old December 7th, 2017, 06:57 PM   #5
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*collective sigh*

People do this just to wind you up because they know itíll make you react irregardess, and it happens to me a lot too. Itís just a childish thing, as some people donít realise that people of opposite genders can be friends and it happens to a lot of people. Stop giving them the satisfaction and donít respond to their little spats and they should stop.
While it can be annoying and they should still stop, I am guessing a lot of them are doing it trying to be funny, even though it is clearly not funny to the OP. Try to ignore them if they will not believe the truth. Or you can say outlandish/sarcastic things to see if that will get them off you. Seriously though, if it is seriously bothering you, be as serious as possible and tell them to cut the crap. If they are truly your friends they should respect you and knock it off at that point.

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Old December 7th, 2017, 07:33 PM   #6
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They r joking with u cause they know
it bothers u and u turn red. U don't have
to answer them if it gets to u.
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Old December 8th, 2017, 08:25 AM   #7
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Happened to me once. I just replied that I like girls, unlike the guy who called me out. He got angry that ai indirectly told him he was gay.

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Old December 8th, 2017, 01:23 PM   #8
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immature idiots to be honest. just ignore it, smile at them, and if you don't give them a reaction, they will stop; they only want a reaction
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Old December 8th, 2017, 03:32 PM   #9
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immature idiots to be honest. just ignore it, smile at them, and if you don't give them a reaction, they will stop; they only want a reaction
Yep I agree. Don't give them the reaction they want. I don't know your relationship with that girl, but if you are friends or at least you talk to each other, just have a laugh with her about it and make sure it doesn't affect your friendship.
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Old December 9th, 2017, 10:08 AM   #10
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No sure the age of you guys but this is a typical immature response from early teens....just don't react to them and let them get you all nervous...this is something many of us have faced at one time or another and part of going through adolescence...it will slow down/stop as you all get older...

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Old December 9th, 2017, 05:19 PM   #11
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If I don't respond in any way, they'll stop. They're just trying to get a laugh out of your response.
Or use the less acceptable way: when they say it, beat them to within an inch of their life and tell them you'll finish it when they make another similar remark (disclaimer: don't!)

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Old December 9th, 2017, 10:49 PM   #12
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The only reason that you would be so concerned about them thinking you like her is if you actually did. So my guess is that you do like her and you still want our advice convincing your friends that you don't like her. How accurate am I right now?


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Old December 10th, 2017, 01:28 AM   #13
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the only reason that you would be so concerned about them thinking you like her is if you actually did. So my guess is that you do like her and you still want our advice convincing your friends that you don't like her. How accurate am i right now?
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Old December 10th, 2017, 08:00 PM   #14
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Do not react if you don't the fun will wear off for them.

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So you are giving some signals that people misunderstand. Relax, except for you and this girl this no one else is concerned.
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Old Yesterday, 02:22 PM   #16
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The only reason that you would be so concerned about them thinking you like her is if you actually did. So my guess is that you do like her and you still want our advice convincing your friends that you don't like her. How accurate am I right now?
fine, i'll admit it. I liked her at one point but i've gone off her. I don't like her anymore. However i never told them i liked her. They just started saying i did
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