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Old July 24th, 2017, 06:42 PM   #21
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really, virginity is not an actual thing, and just a societal construct, so its totally fair to view it any way you want

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Old July 24th, 2017, 08:40 PM   #22
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Do you also lose your third virginity when penetrating a boy?

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Old July 25th, 2017, 06:26 AM   #23
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Yeah but Scott, You said; ... "until I'm doing it without anything on so"... Most people would not not wear clothes during sex, so even if you forgot your socks or undershirt in her room,
(let's just say I'm leaving something behind when I'm finished)
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I'm not sure if this was serious or just joking. But what I meant by 'not having anything on' was, no condom. And, 'leaving something behind' would be directly ejaculating inside of her.
(I know, that means dangerous unprotected sex unless she's on the pill, but that's my ultimate in losing my virginity.)

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really, virginity is not an actual thing
I think for girls it used to be an actual thing. Wasn't it that guys long ago expected their virgin brides to still have an intact hymen on their wedding night?

Posts merged, please edit or use multi quote next time. ~Endeavour

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Old July 25th, 2017, 02:41 PM   #24
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Some people do "box" these things so sometimes class themselves as being an anal or vaginal virgin, so do state weather they loose each one separately
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Old July 26th, 2017, 11:59 AM   #25
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My thought on it always was you lose your virginity the first time you have sex, whether it be a boy or a girl. But this explanation has made me rethink it.
I think I agree with your original assessment, not with your reevaluation.

Virginity is a "state of mind" rather than something "physical", and I think you lose your virginity the first time you have sex.
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Old July 27th, 2017, 07:29 AM   #26
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I agree with it


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Old July 27th, 2017, 10:42 PM   #27
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Maybe there is a third v-card to play here...?

First as a bottom....
I was curious and allowed myself to be a bottom one time. OMG it hurt like hell! That's not for me, but I lost that v-card at least.
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Old July 31st, 2017, 05:17 PM   #28
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Yep makes sense
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Old July 31st, 2017, 06:29 PM   #29
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It depends on how you define virginity. There is not one definition for it; everyone has their own. And that means as well that you, and only you, can define when you lose your virginity.
Yes this answer wins. Some people say having sex is only penetration and others say it's anything sexual (including hand jobs and blow jobs, etc). We can all debate it but only how you see it/view it/categorize it really matters.
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Old July 31st, 2017, 08:51 PM   #30
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I think it does count as loosing it a second time, I see your point though. Guess it depends on your definition of 'virginity' lol
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Old July 31st, 2017, 10:01 PM   #31
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Do you also lose your third virginity when penetrating a boy?
If you're a boy and:
You penetrate a boy
Another boy penetrates you
and you penetrate a girl
does that equal the triple crown
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Old August 1st, 2017, 10:31 AM   #32
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If you're a boy and:
You penetrate a boy
Another boy penetrates you
and you penetrate a girl
does that equal the triple crown
And if a girl penetrates a boy? There are ways..

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Old August 2nd, 2017, 03:43 PM   #33
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Yes. If you look at it that way I would agree that you can lose it twice.


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Old September 4th, 2017, 05:10 PM   #34
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I have done the same as you a boy and a girl. I doubt that I will ever do a girl again though.
I'm with you there Jamie all the way

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Old September 4th, 2017, 09:50 PM   #35
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makes sense
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Old September 23rd, 2017, 10:46 PM   #36
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For me, you lose your virginity the first time you have sex, but I can understand that for a bi/gay/experimenting person, the first time you have sex with each gender would be a memorable event and something to you may wish to distinguish.
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Old October 21st, 2017, 04:07 PM   #37
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i agree with kyle2003
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Old October 21st, 2017, 08:52 PM   #38
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If that's how you want to look at it, sure, but virginity, as are most issues in the world, is subjective, and virginity in particular has been used as a control measure for women to the present day so I'd prefer not to use that as a sexual milestone.
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Old October 22nd, 2017, 02:51 AM   #39
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Mick is way farther along than I am in this virginity-losing thing, but I'm gonna make it even more complicated. With a girl, I'm not going to consider that I've lost my virginity until I'm doing it without anything on so that, let's just say I'm leaving something behind when I'm finished, if you catch what I mean. That, to me, will be the ultimate in losing my virginity.
But are you prepared for what might happen in 9 months? Lol
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