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Old August 31st, 2017, 12:22 PM   #41
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I feel guilty after masturbating to porn
Idk why but I too feel like that
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Old September 9th, 2017, 01:20 PM   #42
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I don't think porn is a sin, wrong, or bad. I actually think it's health. Helps you kinda work out sexual fantasies you may not truly be able to.

But also keep in mind, porn isn't real, it's fake sex and it's all an act, and that's it

Also, it has to leave nobody hurt, and be consensual. If it's not, then it's bad

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There is no right answer to your question. I watch porn and I do not feel guilty about it. There's porn that I find disgusting. There's porn I find exciting.
JT makes a good point that we have to remember that porn is NOT REAL. It is produced to excite and to provide fantasies. Also, like Azur said some of it is really disgusting but again that is all an individual choice.

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Old September 10th, 2017, 11:20 PM   #43
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IDK why you would feel guilty. You would have been mbating without it anyways. Porn just stimulates your sensual senses to make mbating more pleasurable. Heck, guys used to do it to Playboy magazines many years ago. I doubt if they felt guilty doing that, unless they were caught by a parent! jk

Just enjoy and do it in private.

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Old September 20th, 2017, 12:11 PM   #44
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I'm against commercialised porn, as it is often unrealistic and plays to men's fantasies. And nothing turns me off more than when a guy treats a women like a piece of meat. Nowadays, women often feel pressured into getting waxed, doing anal, deep throating, swallowing, and other sexual acts that were considered extreme 30 years ago.

I don't think it's right that this is happening.

If I ever watch porn, it is always homemade.
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Old September 20th, 2017, 04:16 PM   #45
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It is a very common feeling for people to feel guilty or remorseful after using porn, or masturbating in general - I think it is linked to the fact that we are told to feel guilty about and repress our sexuality and sexual desires by society. When we start watching porn, we are driven past those societal inhibitions by our desire to get off. When we finally reach orgasm, and that sexual urge wears away, we default back to some of those feelings of guilt and shame we pick up from those around us.

I don't think that using porn is inherently bad, but as with all things, it has to be done in moderation - using it excessively can cause physical and mental health problems, so I'd recommend also masturbating without the use of pornography.



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Old September 20th, 2017, 06:34 PM   #46
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If you think it's wrong, then it's wrong for you. If you think it's OK, then it's OK. The main thing to worry about is that you don't spend all your time watching that instead of being out forming regular relationships in the real world.
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Old September 20th, 2017, 06:52 PM   #47
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Everybody needs to see porn its like how you need to go to the bathroom you just have to do it.
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Old September 21st, 2017, 06:36 PM   #48
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i was 10-11 when i was at asleep over at a friends house; she had her own computer in her room and we looked at some porn on the internet. we had never seen it before and we were shocked, we couldn't stop giggling for a very long time. we even debated if it was real, or just very strange people doing gross stuff. We all agreed that the guy's penis had to be fake. LOL
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Old September 21st, 2017, 06:50 PM   #49
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I think it's quite a normal thing

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Old October 23rd, 2017, 09:59 PM   #50
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A lot of people say its fine and such, which to a point it is. But I got addicted to it and it made me really insecure and about everything and once I just put my phone down and went to it with only my imagination it made my masturbation experiences much better. Up to you, Im christian and dont like porn cause of many reasons, just me tho

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Old October 24th, 2017, 02:19 PM   #51
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There's nothing inherently wrong with porn itself. While there are often issues in the ethics of its production, those issues are not intrinsically part of porn, and, while terrible, don't automatically make all porn evil.

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Old October 25th, 2017, 05:29 AM   #52
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I see nothing wrong with watching porn
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Old October 26th, 2017, 06:08 AM   #53
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I think you have to make your own judgement on that.

There is a Christian teaching that it is wrong to lust after a woman who is not your wife but to me that seems in keeping with much of the rest of the bible which is very much anti-adultery. In modern times this is often interpreted as it being wrong to have sex, or in this case even imagine having sex, with someone else who is, like you, free and single but I am not sure that was how it was originally intended. I think in biblical times people just weren't free and single because puberty was later and marriage was earlier so at that time if one had sexual desires he would also have a wife to satisfy them so there was no need for the bible to address the case of the horny teen.

Some people complain that porn encourages women to be seen as sex objects rather than complete people and some even suggest this drives rape. I did see an article, though, that found that as access to the Internet improved throughout America the rate of rape went down. (inverse correlation) It could be, of course, that men all over America were watching TED talks but the author of the article suggested instead that they could live out their fantasies watching porn and didn't need to force a real woman.

I have also seen a TV programme that found that many of the people in front of the camera have rather broken lives in so far as also being involved in drugs and/or prostitution. You have to decide for yourself if you think watching porn causes the supplier to exploit people like than and make their situation worse or whether they would probably still do the drugs and prostitution just without the money from porn.
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Old October 26th, 2017, 12:14 PM   #54
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i think it's ok to watch porn sometimes but not often
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Old October 26th, 2017, 01:33 PM   #55
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I think in general it's correct to prohibit minors to watch porn.

But I also think that it is completely individual dependent, whether Porns look for minors is scandalous or not.

Personally, I looked at something like that when I was 12 years old. By mid-thirteenth, this was boring for me. And I only saw porn again when my girlfriend asked me what I thought of the porn she had looked at. Something that completely hit me out 8f sudden.

I believe that it's not a sin to watch porn.

If, later on, as a father, I get confronted with my kids watching porns, I'll just ask'em why they do that and, depending on their answers, what fascinates them watching it. Whether I forbid them is also dependent on their answers. But I will never tell them that this is a sin.

Oh yeah, I'll be a embarrrasing dad talking that way to my kids, that's for sure.





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Old November 4th, 2017, 09:18 PM   #56
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I think in general it's correct to prohibit minors to watch porn.

But I also think that it is completely individual dependent, whether Porns look for minors is scandalous or not.

Personally, I looked at something like that when I was 12 years old. By mid-thirteenth, this was boring for me. And I only saw porn again when my girlfriend asked me what I thought of the porn she had looked at. Something that completely hit me out 8f sudden.

I believe that it's not a sin to watch porn.

If, later on, as a father, I get confronted with my kids watching porns, I'll just ask'em why they do that and, depending on their answers, what fascinates them watching it. Whether I forbid them is also dependent on their answers. But I will never tell them that this is a sin.

Oh yeah, I'll be a embarrrasing dad talking that way to my kids, that's for sure.
Yeah my parents caught me a couple of times and they really had problems with it, can't blame them though of course.
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Old November 5th, 2017, 08:37 AM   #57
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shouldnt feel bad about watching porn imo, some of its awesome
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Old November 6th, 2017, 12:51 AM   #58
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Watching porn is fine, helps you to explore your body. Just don't believe everything you see in porn as it can give you a wrong expectation of what sex is going to be like
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Old November 13th, 2017, 06:24 PM   #59
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Yes in moderation.
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Old November 13th, 2017, 11:30 PM   #60
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I watch it like twice a week ahaha
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