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Old December 13th, 2006, 02:26 PM   #21
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Stop figthing.. stay on topic. I will give an automatic warning to anyone who continues to fight.

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Old December 13th, 2006, 03:31 PM   #22
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miguel, im harrie not carol!!!! omg i cant believe you got forgot who i was!!!!!!! im hurt, and micky i have tried councelling its crap, and it doesnt help, is there no other way to stop me being like dad?? xxx

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Old December 13th, 2006, 03:33 PM   #23
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Harrie, I don't think you need to worry about it. Your too caring, I don't think you'd ever do anything like that.

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Old December 13th, 2006, 08:11 PM   #24
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Yea, but it's hard to break the f'ed up chain by yourself. And yes I was f'ing abused. Now I'm mad cause you had to remind me of my f'ed up step dad. Luckily I have Elizabeth and Danielle to calm me down. I've been to counseling. I know it makes things worse. All adults I've talked to said counseling goes bad and makes you suicidal then goes better. It TAKES a while. Doing it all by yourself will take a while too, much more. I think. And Diego, I can easily make you believe that I'm one of the nicest guys in the world. It's not that hard. I've fooled soooooooooooooooooooooooooo many people by making them think I'm super super nice. I'm not fighting with anybody.
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Old December 14th, 2006, 01:34 PM   #25
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.....Sorry



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Old December 14th, 2006, 01:59 PM   #26
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What are you sorry for? You haven't done anything wrong


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Old December 15th, 2006, 12:24 PM   #28
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miguel, im harrie not carol!!!! omg i cant believe you got forgot who i was!!!!!!! im hurt, and micky i have tried councelling its crap, and it doesnt help, is there no other way to stop me being like dad?? xxx
I'm sorry everyone has been changing names and its confusing me!!

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Old December 15th, 2006, 11:14 PM   #29
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Stop hackign me mRojas2000! (lol) Oh well, I don't know nobodys name so don't get mad at me. Only person's name I know here is Miguel's because of his signature. And myself.

Silence, We're still wondering why you are sorry. So how about you telling us? You did NOTHING wrong. Not one single thing.

I should be the one saying sorry. Everybody here think I'm wrong. So, I guess I'll say it. I'm sorry I might've scared you. I'm sorry I said what I said.

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Old December 17th, 2006, 06:14 PM   #30
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Ok first the only way the abused will be like the abuser is when they become one, meaning theyl most commonly use the same techniques.......


But its your choice realy, if you want to be weak and take it out on someone weaker then yes you'l be like the abuser

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Old December 17th, 2006, 10:02 PM   #31
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I believe everyone has control over his or her future and nobody is pre-destined to do anything. You have a choice on who you want to be.
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Old December 18th, 2006, 09:19 AM   #32
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I believe everyone has control over his or her future
Yea, that's true. Hopefully.... I don't believe it that much but I want to.
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Old December 18th, 2006, 09:23 AM   #33
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Dude.. you seem like a pretty sad person!!

I mean, you have very low selfconfidence and moral, you don't think you can change your future, you don't beleive in love, everyone who was abused HAS to go to a councelor... cheer up man!

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Old December 18th, 2006, 09:32 AM   #34
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Yea, that's true. Hopefully.... I don't believe it that much but I want to.
You may not see it now. Life goes on.
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Old December 18th, 2006, 03:50 PM   #35
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You may not see it now. Life goes on.
So true


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Old December 18th, 2006, 10:01 PM   #36
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Ok, fine I'm a discrase. (I think I spelt that wrong but you know what I mean) I really don't care.
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cheer up man!
Blah. Maybe I don't want to.

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everyone who was abused HAS to go to a councelor...
I said I was sorry. And I was wrong. Now leave me alone with that crap.

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I believe everyone has control over his or her future and nobody is pre-destined to do anything. You have a choice on who you want to be.
I just read something at my school. This is exact if I can remember clearly

Watch your thoughts,
they become your actions.
Watch your actions,
they become habits.
Watch your habits,
they become your character.
Watch your character,
it becomes your destiny.

So yea, you do have complete control over your destiny. But it's hard to change habits. I don't know if that's true or not but but it's exactly what the poster says at my school.

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Old December 18th, 2006, 10:06 PM   #37
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I know that poster you're taking about. My 9th grade English teacher had it up on her wall.

It's never too late to change. Nothing is ever permanent. if you really want to change you will. If you're not motivated and expect to get it done with no effort you're only fooling yourself. The best way to change is to do things out of your comfort zone. Like for example, going to a party. It opens yourself up to new things and you'll change as you do new things.
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Old December 21st, 2006, 12:19 AM   #38
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Woah! Now I'm freaked out. My English teacher has it on her wall. Maybe we go to the same school. Wow.
Well, actually it's this. I'm redoing the top part. That's exactly what it is on the poster.

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Old September 1st, 2008, 11:18 PM   #39
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quote:
Doctors aren't 100% correct but they're mostly always correct.

according to statistics if your feet are in an oven and your head in a deep freezer then you should feel pretty average
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Old September 2nd, 2008, 07:28 AM   #40
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Wow, two year old thread, Locked.

All you need is love.
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