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Old July 4th, 2016, 09:02 AM   #1
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Old July 4th, 2016, 09:32 AM   #2
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Seems like your sister, an adult sister, is making decisions for herself, that are against the families popular ideas, but is also happy.
In my book, being happy comes first in life.
Being worried for her is a normal feeling. Especially if you don't agree with her decisions. But it is her life to live as she chooses
The suicide thing is the most concerning obviously, and I'd keep an eye on that. If she keeps talking about harming herself like in the immediate future your guna need to say something to someone
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Old July 4th, 2016, 09:52 AM   #3
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Old July 4th, 2016, 01:22 PM   #4
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Actually suicide is not the problem anymore.
Have you considered its because he makes her happy?

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Old July 4th, 2016, 03:34 PM   #6
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Think I'd stay out of it. She's happy, let her tell your parents when she's ready, and how she wants to
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Old July 4th, 2016, 06:52 PM   #8
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Well....don't know what to say about that. But, there's nothing you can do about that either. My our sis made her choices herself, and if your parents love her, they'll get past it somehow eventually. I'd just be there for them when the shit hits the fan, duck, cover, tuck and foll, and just be there for them
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Maybe he's her sugar daddy? o.O

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Actually suicide is not the problem anymore. She isn't suicidal anymore. I'm more worried about my parents. As I said they really won't take it well. They will freak out. They really don't deserve this after all they've done for me and her

And btw she aint sure about her decisions.. Were they good were they bad.. She said she thought about it a lot. And said life is long, a shitload of stuff will happen. But I'm thinking about now. And I'm thinking about my parents.

Whether they freak out or not shouldn't be your sister's problem, in my opinion. She has a right to be happy and live her life. She's not on drugs, doing anything illegal or suicidal. The quicker your parents realize she has grown up, the quicker they will be happy.
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But he is 58, and she is 21. Is that normal? + she already has a boyfriend.. and really this isn't the main problem here.. it's her quiting college.. this other aprt just freaked me out... she told me she calls him "grandpa" ..
Sounds like an odd fetish. She might be putting college on hold and not quitting it completely. Try to relax a bit if you're really stressed about this.
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