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Old July 28th, 2015, 09:04 PM   #21
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Right now, this forums rule against "not puberty related" questions is doing more harm than good (potentially hurting people IRL).

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/sh...d.php?t=226109 This one is a really good example.

User is curious about anal play (this curiousity is probably because their in puberty btw). We can assume they ask the question on this site because they suck at using search engines and/or don't trust other sites but feel safe in this forum.

The thread got one reply with bad advices and then it was locked.

No, you can't use whatever you want. Soap is not lube and you should definitely not put a pen up your ass. However anyone ever asking these questions won't get to know what is safe and as a result, if they follow the poor advices they can end up hurting themselves. You can't really blame them for asking here either..
Yea that's what Yahoo is for, not VT. Unless you'd rather let everything be permissible and tell Herbert (Hint Hint) he can come and talk to the little boys. And other disgusting things. Or better yet, let them go to a sex forum and ask there because i don't think they'd give a fuck, but that's my opinion so take it (No, that wasn't meant to be sexual.)

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Old July 28th, 2015, 10:39 PM   #22
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Stop mentioning the archive, yahoo answers, google or anywhere else where that information is available. It is irrelevant. When someone asks for advice on this forum, it obviously is because they couldn't find information elsewhere or found it easier to ask on this forum. Yes, they could have read yahoo answers, but they didn't. They asked here, but we don't help, we don't make sure that what they do with their body is safe. No, we just lock the thread. They can shove knifes up their vagina for all we care.

Before mods lock threads, do at least delete the bad advices any user has given.

Maybe allowing these questions will lead to more story telling (erotica). If that's the case, mods can just delete the inappropriate replies. Workload won't increase much.
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Old July 28th, 2015, 11:01 PM   #23
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Stop mentioning the archive, yahoo answers, google or anywhere else where that information is available. It is irrelevant. When someone asks for advice on this forum, it obviously is because they couldn't find information elsewhere or found it easier to ask on this forum. Yes, they could have read yahoo answers, but they didn't. They asked here, but we don't help, we don't make sure that what they do with their body is safe. No, we just lock the thread. They can shove knifes up their vagina for all we care.

Before mods lock threads, do at least delete the bad advices any user has given.

Maybe allowing these questions will lead to more story telling (erotica). If that's the case, mods can just delete the inappropriate replies. Workload won't increase much.
The Puberty101 forums are for teenagers, who are technically children whom we are partly responsible for while they are on this site, to ask questions about their development, other puberty-related topics like masturbation, and other related topics that may not be 100% puberty related, but we recognize that they are still relevent. For example, questions about porn or experimentation. This is labeled pretty clearly all over the section -- we advertise to not be a forum about sex, but rather a supportive community where you can ask questions that you may not feel comfortable asking elsewhere. I don't really care what ask or yahoo answers allow or don't allow, so I'm not even going to mention it again because those are totally different sites.

We don't have a sex forum because while sex may be enticing, interesting, or enthralling, it attracts a shady crowd. I think drawing in a crowd of internet pervs, more than the P101 forums already do, is a terrible idea. Nobody on this site wants to take on that responsibility, and to be frank, I sure as hell don't want that legal responsibility.

You keep mentioning how we allow people to give bad advice. Sorry, but that is not 100% in our control. If you're looking for professional advice I suggest that you speak to a doctor, or ask your health teacher. We'll do our very best to steer everybody in the right direction, but if you're asking questions about what you should use to anally masturbate, your thread is going to be locked, and I don't think "Sorry I personally feel like you gave bad advice" is a fair reason to delete posts, something I think most members would agree with -- sorry that you don't. Next time I get an email saying that somebody stuck a knife up his/her anus because they got bad advice on this site I'll revisit this, and maybe then we'll start arbitrarily deleting posts that we don't like.

We're always going to do our very best to protect our users, and allowing a sex forum is not aligned with that, for reasons I explained in this post. Sorry bud.

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Old July 28th, 2015, 11:51 PM   #24
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Next time I get an email saying that somebody stuck a knife up his/her anus because they got bad advice on this site I'll revisit this.
The knife is an exaggeration (hopefully). Point is, readers of this forum may have used object(s) anally that they shouldn't, potentially harming them. Which could have been avoided if this forum supported those questions. It's probably uncommon tho, it's just unfortunate for the few that do get hurt.

but I realize now that allowing it will lead to more bad than good.
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Old July 29th, 2015, 12:44 AM   #25
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If that gets you off, OP, then sure, why not. Viagra is on the house anytime, bby.

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A sex form? You're joking. I hid the entire puberty section because a lot of it, the girls section too, made me very uncomfortable. And putting a bunch of teens together in a SEX FORM
Is not going to work.
Yes. ^

But... +1 to OP for very original idea.
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Old July 29th, 2015, 04:10 AM   #26
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The knife is an exaggeration (hopefully). Point is, readers of this forum may have used object(s) anally that they shouldn't, potentially harming them. Which could have been avoided if this forum supported those questions. It's probably uncommon tho, it's just unfortunate for the few that do get hurt.
I realize that some teens are actually quite curious when it comes to these things. But, if nothing else, common sense has to come into play. Literally half the problems would be solved, without having to post on VT or anywhere else about it if you follow these questions:

Is it going to do physical harm to me?

Is it something that would be embarrassing to tell someone about if something goes wrong (I.e. A doctor)?

Etc, etc.

It's just for one teen who actually has a serious question, like 10 shady characters are just waiting for the next one to get off too. Unfortunate, but reality.




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Old July 29th, 2015, 10:25 AM   #27
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I'm going to lock this thread. If anybody has any more questions or concerns you can PM me, or another admin, about it.

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