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Old July 7th, 2014, 03:47 PM   #21
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Depends on which abuser, there are so many people to choose from, lol
Of them all I only forgive my father, because he's the only one who repented, tried hard and successfully changed, and attempted to make it up to me.

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Old July 8th, 2014, 05:24 AM   #22
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well despite my cusin doing it 2 me i still like him but i dont ever want to see him again, ots kinda confusing but i still like him lots and lots, i guess i like him cus he looked after me when i was little and we did have sum fun times together

I am 15 and i just want to make friends and chat
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Old July 8th, 2014, 12:32 PM   #23
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A lot of my fetishes and things that turn me on come from my abuse as a kid.

I was not only molested and raped by my father for over 4 years but he also took video and pictures, let his other perv friends take turns with me, tied me, beat me and left scars and I still love him. Its something ive struggled with my whole life because he hurt me so badly and i hate him but a part of me still loves him.

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Old July 13th, 2014, 01:47 AM   #24
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I was both physically ( not sexually ) and emotionally abused by my mother and definitely my father, i try to avoid my father and I don't like calling him dad or father I call him by his first name but im only using father on here just so y'all can know who it is.

As to my sexual abuser ( my uncle ) when I was young I used to like going to his house just because he had a game cube system and i didn't but as I got older I finally had the courage to ask him why he did those things to me as a young child and when he finally replied back to my message on Facebook I Was angry because he said he did not remember doing those things to me so after that message I haven't talked or seen him again and I prefer for it to stay that way.
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Old July 14th, 2014, 11:32 AM   #25
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My uncle has been abusing me since I was 7, I think I still love him because he's my family and I have to, but he scares me.
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Old July 14th, 2014, 12:09 PM   #26
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There are so many to chose from. I don't know if it's the years of counseling or my Bi-Polar meds. I don't feel anything towards them anymore.

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Old July 14th, 2014, 12:29 PM   #27
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I hate my abuser more than anyone else on this earth. He ruined who I am.
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Old July 20th, 2014, 12:31 PM   #28
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I feel there crazy and insane and I wish they would be burned alive by my hand...but...I guess I'd never actually do it. But one can dream. Anyway....too honest?

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Old July 23rd, 2014, 01:20 AM   #29
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I actually wasn't abused by someone I know. I can't remember what they looked like, I'm not sure he ever showed his face. I don't really hate him because I don't know who he is.

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Old July 23rd, 2014, 03:43 PM   #30
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I sometimes hate my dad for what he does and other times I want him to just hug me, shows how warped my mind is now.
And the guy that's raping me, I hate him and im scared of him.
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Old August 20th, 2014, 02:05 PM   #31
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Most of the time, I feel scared of him, even now - I feel like, if I report him, he'll get away with it and I'll get in trouble. Sometimes I forgive him - I feel like it may have been my fault, since I had a crush on him, and he never seemed like a bad guy. Other times I just don't know what to feel.
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Old October 29th, 2014, 07:14 AM   #32
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I don't care I don't feel anything to him but I wouldn't mind if he died tomorrow
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Old October 29th, 2014, 08:15 AM   #33
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idk, it still confuses me, but i no longer have any dealings with that person and they are not welcome in my home

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Talk to or ask me about anything, anytime and I will reply.

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Old November 1st, 2014, 04:42 AM   #34
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I have come to terms I was raped when I was 11. I have forgiven Simion of what he did, It wasn't right but you can't change the past, you can only change your future. He was a troubled kid who hopefully has become a good adult ( as he is 18 or 19 now ). He was a good kid overall who had a shitty past and was going through alot at the time and he took it out on me. As for abuse abuse, I've forgiven my family members who've abused me, I won't go into detail but I have come to terms with it. My feelings are fickle at times but im good overall.
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Old December 8th, 2014, 03:46 PM   #35
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I feel anger, hatred, disgust, yet at the same time I feel love, warmth and trust. I know, it's stupid, I don't understand my relationship with them..
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Old December 8th, 2014, 04:04 PM   #36
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I don't care I don't feel anything to him but I wouldn't mind if he died tomorrow
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