Can't Cum

Aamir3D · September 1st, 2014, 06:10 PM

So I have a friend that recently told me that he can only have an orgasm, but he can't actually cum. I was actually wondering if any of you have the same problem, or know anything about the reason why he can't cum.

nklarke · September 1st, 2014, 06:13 PM

If he's your age, the answer is very simple. Because every one grows at different times. Maybe you have friends that have hair where you don't have yet, it's the same reason.

Aamir3D · September 1st, 2014, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by nklarke

If he's your age, the answer is very simple. Because every one grows at different times. Maybe you have friends that have hair where you don't have yet, it's the same reason.

I forgot to mention...he's 19.

Abc123456 · September 1st, 2014, 06:32 PM

He's probably not matured enough to ejaculate cum yet but he'll eventually get there!

Aamir3D · September 1st, 2014, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Abc123456

He's probably not matured enough to ejaculate cum yet but he'll eventually get there!

He is, he has a full grown beard and everything!

SeinFan77 · September 1st, 2014, 06:56 PM

That's a little weird if he's 19 has a beard and can't cum

nklarke · September 1st, 2014, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Aamir3D

I forgot to mention...he's 19.

And what the doctor says?

Aamir3D · September 1st, 2014, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by nklarke

And what the doctor says?

My friend said that the doctor said that he'll be able to come soon or something like that. I don't remember what my friend told me clearly.

SeinFan77 · September 1st, 2014, 07:38 PM

Is he just a super late bloomer?

ksdnfkfr · September 1st, 2014, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Aamir3D

My friend said that the doctor said that he'll be able to come soon or something like that. I don't remember what my friend told me clearly.

Your friend is the only one who knows what his problem is. Don't think you will find any other 19 year olds here who can't ejaculate.

nklarke · September 2nd, 2014, 02:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Ezra

Your friend is the only one who knows what his problem is. Don't think you will find any other 19 year olds here who can't ejaculate.

If puberty could finish on late bloomers up to 21 years old and the doctor said all it's fine, just matter of time I don't see any problem at all.

Curious. · September 2nd, 2014, 04:31 AM

I think the doc knows best, since all others have grown he should cum too at some stage have the balls grown normally?

Curious. · September 2nd, 2014, 04:32 AM

I heard that people whose balls did not drop at birth may encounter probs in sperm

Hermes · September 2nd, 2014, 06:34 AM

There are only really two common reasons for somone not to be able to ejaculate:

1. Not reaching orgasm.
2. The glands that make the semen not being sufficienly developed (yet) to do so.

You've ruled out the first making the second the most likely explanation. Now if there are other signs of being well developed such as being tall, having a large penis, lots of public hair, a deep voice, even some facial or chest hair and he still can't ejaculate then the explanation may be one of the rarer ones that needs investigation but at 14 it is much more likely to be just developing a little late.

asrlem · September 24th, 2014, 03:55 PM

I think that your friend needs to see a doctor because most people by the time they are 14-15 have already started ejaculating.

ComfortableInChaos · September 24th, 2014, 04:07 PM

It's okay if he can't. He's just not developed enough. He just is a late bloomer if he's your age.

Tendencies · September 24th, 2014, 06:49 PM

It all depends on development, I don't think it should cause too much of an alarm right now, but if he gets to be older and still can't ejaculate, he should get it checked out.

Hideous · September 24th, 2014, 07:39 PM

I agree with the above, it's most likely about development and if he's a late bloomer.

Samstar · September 25th, 2014, 12:06 AM

What everybody else said. He must just be a veeeery late bloomer or something.

samii · November 8th, 2014, 02:36 AM

go and check to doctor
he is 19 i think he is super late bloomer

September 1st, 2014, 06:10 PM	#1
Aamir3D Junior Member Name: Savian Join Date: June 18, 2014 Location: Georgia, USA Age: 18 Gender:	Can't Cum So I have a friend that recently told me that he can only have an orgasm, but he can't actually cum. I was actually wondering if any of you have the same problem, or know anything about the reason why he can't cum. Hi, I'm 14, bi, and really want to get to know new people.

September 1st, 2014, 06:13 PM	#2
nklarke Awesome Poster Name: N. Join Date: September 16, 2013 Location: Canada Gender:	Re: Can't Cum If he's your age, the answer is very simple. Because every one grows at different times. Maybe you have friends that have hair where you don't have yet, it's the same reason.

September 1st, 2014, 06:32 PM	#4
Abc123456 New Member Join Date: January 31, 2013 Gender:	Re: Can't Cum He's probably not matured enough to ejaculate cum yet but he'll eventually get there!
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September 1st, 2014, 06:56 PM	#6
SeinFan77 Member Join Date: August 6, 2014 Gender:	Re: Can't Cum That's a little weird if he's 19 has a beard and can't cum
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September 1st, 2014, 07:38 PM	#9
SeinFan77 Member Join Date: August 6, 2014 Gender:	Re: Can't Cum Is he just a super late bloomer?
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September 2nd, 2014, 04:31 AM	#12
Curious. Member Join Date: August 29, 2014 Age: 19 Gender:	Re: Can't Cum I think the doc knows best, since all others have grown he should cum too at some stage have the balls grown normally? 15/bi/would like to talk and make friends, outgoing

September 2nd, 2014, 04:32 AM	#13
Curious. Member Join Date: August 29, 2014 Age: 19 Gender:	Re: Can't Cum I heard that people whose balls did not drop at birth may encounter probs in sperm 15/bi/would like to talk and make friends, outgoing

September 2nd, 2014, 06:34 AM	#14
Hermes VT Lover Join Date: October 15, 2010 Gender:	Re: Can't Cum There are only really two common reasons for somone not to be able to ejaculate: 1. Not reaching orgasm. 2. The glands that make the semen not being sufficienly developed (yet) to do so. You've ruled out the first making the second the most likely explanation. Now if there are other signs of being well developed such as being tall, having a large penis, lots of public hair, a deep voice, even some facial or chest hair and he still can't ejaculate then the explanation may be one of the rarer ones that needs investigation but at 14 it is much more likely to be just developing a little late.
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September 24th, 2014, 03:55 PM	#15
asrlem Member+ Name: Asrlem Join Date: September 22, 2014 Location: in my room, with the lights off. Age: 17 Gender:	Re: Can't Cum I think that your friend needs to see a doctor because most people by the time they are 14-15 have already started ejaculating. "Be who you are, and say what you feel, because those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind." -Dr. Suess Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad. -unknown Like playing saxophone, vid games, and reading, curious and willing to talk

September 24th, 2014, 04:07 PM	#16
ComfortableInChaos Awesome Poster Join Date: February 5, 2013 Location: The State of Dreaming Age: 20 Gender:	Re: Can't Cum It's okay if he can't. He's just not developed enough. He just is a late bloomer if he's your age. 18 year old guy Gay (bi, but consider myself gay) Completely open about everything and anything. Wanna know more? Need advice? Just bored and wanna chat? PM me!

September 24th, 2014, 06:49 PM	#17
Tendencies Member++ Join Date: August 12, 2013 Location: California Gender:	Re: Can't Cum It all depends on development, I don't think it should cause too much of an alarm right now, but if he gets to be older and still can't ejaculate, he should get it checked out. I'm that guy that you see sitting by himself in a corner at school with his earbuds put in, and is lost in a never ending cycle of wondering what is, what could've been, what is to come, and why. If you think that you can tolerate me or that we can have interesting conversations, please don't hesitate to hit me up, or if you just need someone to vent to or to talk to about anything, I would love to give some comfort to your situation.

September 24th, 2014, 07:39 PM	#18
Hideous Warlord Name: John Join Date: June 25, 2014 Location: New York City Gender: Blog Entries: 2	Re: Can't Cum I agree with the above, it's most likely about development and if he's a late bloomer. “Everyone leaves, learn how to survive alone.” “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson (they/them) ~alluring was here (naw wait he's dead)

September 25th, 2014, 12:06 AM	#19
Samstar Member+ Name: Sam Join Date: May 9, 2012 Location: On Earth. Gender:	Re: Can't Cum What everybody else said. He must just be a veeeery late bloomer or something.

November 8th, 2014, 02:36 AM	#20
samii Member Name: sam Join Date: October 30, 2014 Location: delhi Gender:	Re: Can't Cum go and check to doctor he is 19 i think he is super late bloomer

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