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Old November 22nd, 2013, 06:09 AM   #1
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Exclamation I need some help from a girl :/

Okay here's the problem...

Yesterday I had two friends come over. My best friend(who's a boy) and my other best friend( she's a girl). We always talk about everything to each other, but yesterday... She was acting really weird about us and I kept noticing she was staring at our crotch area. We both looked down there and we didnt have an erection or anything. Then she got really close o me and was trying to like rub her breasts on me.....

This is where indeed your help girls(or guys, I just need help). Should I talk to her about this? If so, how do I talk to her about it, I want to tell her how I feel about it( I didn't like it) but I don't want to hurt her... Have you ever done this to a guy? If so how did they react to it?
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Old November 22nd, 2013, 06:18 AM   #2
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You Should Just Be Open And Talk To Her About It... Maybe She Likes You.
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Old November 22nd, 2013, 09:20 AM   #3
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Talk to her. Just be gentle and open. Come out and say something like "Hey, I thought we were friends. What do you did was uncomfortable to me. I like spending time with you but I don't feel okay with that happening again."

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Old November 22nd, 2013, 10:30 AM   #4
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Talk to her ASAP, tell her you did not liked what happened and need to talk about it. She might get upset, but is better than letting her continue until she obsesses about you or actually decide you are not worth it even as a friend.

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Old November 22nd, 2013, 12:18 PM   #5
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If you have the kind of relationship with her where you can bring it up in a joking manner and she will still get the point then that would be good...but if not, the honest and direct approach is always best.
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Old November 22nd, 2013, 12:54 PM   #6
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Here's some advice. Just ask her if she likes you, or wants anything of you. It's the simplest thing I can advice. Just confront her with it and get it out of the way. It's not as easy as it sounds, but it'll give you the best answer quickest.
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Old November 22nd, 2013, 02:30 PM   #7
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Thanks everyone. I'm going to talk to her later about this
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Old November 22nd, 2013, 03:18 PM   #8
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Yeah, if you want to know then just ask her, she's your best friend after all.

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Old November 22nd, 2013, 03:29 PM   #9
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Thanks Hannah! I talked to her but I'd rather not share it right now. Ill just say she definately likes me... :/. I just don't like her like that ya know? We're best friends, but now I'm drifting away from her a little :/
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Old November 22nd, 2013, 04:06 PM   #10
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Thanks Hannah! I talked to her but I'd rather not share it right now. Ill just say she definately likes me... :/. I just don't like her like that ya know? We're best friends, but now I'm drifting away from her a little :/
Well don't drift away from her.

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Old November 22nd, 2013, 04:12 PM   #11
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Well I'm not trying to! Lol . It's just, I don't want her to be like sexual towards me
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Talk to her, she likes u!!!!
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Old November 24th, 2013, 10:26 PM   #13
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the best advice is to just talk to her! nothing she will say would hurt you maybe she has a crush on you but you wont know until you find out :3

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Old November 24th, 2013, 10:28 PM   #14
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Thanks everyone for the answers! They helped me alot!

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Old November 24th, 2013, 10:43 PM   #15
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Don't stress everything will work out in the end.
If she likes you, cool. if you see her as a friend, and you don't want that sexual relationship, then you need to tell her that.

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