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Old February 3rd, 2013, 08:35 AM   #1
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So I have a friend who wants to really badly after her first time but I know she'll get addicted and eventually hate it... So any ways I could help her?

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Old February 3rd, 2013, 09:22 AM   #2
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Old February 10th, 2013, 01:16 PM   #3
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So I have a friend who wants to really badly after her first time but I know she'll get addicted and eventually hate it... So any ways I could help her?
I would definately talk to her, show she can trust you. Then encourage her to think about:

why she self harms? What are the underlying factors? How can any contributing factors be addressed on a practical level? Who can she turn to for support (other than you)?

Show that your willing to listen, and don't judge her if she opens up. Try and remind her of the things she likes about life and how she can improve things.


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Old February 11th, 2013, 04:27 PM   #4
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Yeah I've got it covered!(: thanks tho

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