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Old April 25th, 2012, 08:05 PM   #41
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Ask about surgery to the doctors. I hope things are okay. Don't lose faith.
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Old April 25th, 2012, 08:06 PM   #42
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Old April 25th, 2012, 10:12 PM   #43
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Dude, I know what you are going through. My dad had Bladder Cancer last year, and we thought it was the worst for him. After several test, we found out it was the a good case (other than not having caner), and they were able to cut out the cancer after a few months of treatments. Times got and still are tough for us. So far, he is cancer free. I', sorry to hear about that, I wish all of you the best of luck. Much Respect for You'all.
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Old April 25th, 2012, 10:16 PM   #44
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I'm really sorry for your family. Cancer is a terrible menace, my great grandpa died of stomach cancer...

If you need to talk, feel free to PM me Stay strong Eric, and I wish the best of luck to your father.
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Old April 25th, 2012, 10:17 PM   #45
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Old April 25th, 2012, 10:31 PM   #46
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Old April 26th, 2012, 02:49 PM   #47
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I hope things work out for you and your dad. Stay strong, you can get through this
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Old April 26th, 2012, 09:37 PM   #48
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Eric, you know i'm always here for you. I'm so sorry you and your family are having to go through this. All you can do is hope, I know it feels impossible but try to stay a little positive. It seems as though you're really close, a relationship like that, no matter how long it lasts, can never be forgotten. Spend time with him, make sure they're happy moments I don't doubt that they won't be.
You'll get through this Eric, i'm not saying it won't be hard but you'll come out stronger on the other side. Don't lose faith though, he's still with you and that's what counts.
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Old April 26th, 2012, 09:39 PM   #49
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Eric, I know we haven't chatted much, but if you ever need to talk, you can always PM me. I understand what you are going through. My grandmother, one of the only people I had trusted, died of lung cancer 3 years ago.
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Old April 26th, 2012, 09:41 PM   #50
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Deirdre View Post
FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just when everything was going great with my life, something had to happen. my dad is going to die.

the radiation treatments, since they are supposed to be in the center of the esophagus, so it could ruin his heart, lungs, spine, and ironically enough cause swallowing issues, which is why he went into the treatments in the first place. so, if he takes the treatments, his heart won't last very long.

but if he doesn't take the treatments, well, he still has stage 3 cancer. so, there is an 88% chance that he will die without the treatments. and with them, well, it's just too much to add up.

i love you daddy

and sorry for bumping this a lot, i just want to keep you guys updated.
I'm so sorry Eric couple years ago I got a shock when my dad's dad got cancer, but he survived. I hope things work out for you. if you ever need to talk, I'll be here *hugs*
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Old April 26th, 2012, 10:12 PM   #51
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boy I feel the pain as u no bout my mom . so sad lol hope he makes it through it . boy o boy thanks for your support an I'm here for you . just to talk or venting what ever you need . all the luv to u and your family  be strong an help all u can ! the saying
I LOVE YOU DADDY made me cry I'm going to hug mine right now and everyone reading this should to ! Eric be tough !!!!
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Old April 26th, 2012, 10:25 PM   #52
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my father has cancer. we just found out about it today. it is in his esophagus. i have to stay strong for my family.

this really fucking sucks.

if only people knew that i can't make the 139$ payment to school at the moment, god. i might not be here that often for a while guys... and i might have to stop coming all together.

i will miss you guys while im gone, get ahold of me if you need, i'll try to stay on as long as possible.
I am very sorry...come find me if you want to, I will talk...

Please stay as long as possible, I would hate to see you go.

And be strong. Cancer is hard, but it's beatable. Love your dad like never before. Love has been proven to help treat cancer.

And you know what they say, it's always darkest before dawn.
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Old April 27th, 2012, 04:12 PM   #53
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Eric, I'm so sorry. I know what you're going through; my grandfather died of cancer. I'm here for you!


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Old April 28th, 2012, 08:39 AM   #54
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Hi friends,
cancer is very dangerous disease for our health mostly peoples in this world are died because of this virus it directly attacked on our any sensitive part of body and destroy it.
we should advice with our doctor to save form this disease.
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Old April 30th, 2012, 01:22 AM   #55
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See this is the one of the most traumatic things anyone can go through and it is incredibly tough on the loved ones.

You need to stay strong. It will be hard. The best thing you can do is try not to look at him and constantly think "he's could die" yes you need to come to terms with it and by the sounds of it you have. You just need to make sure that the time you spend with him is the best in the world.

I am truly sorry to hear this Eric I really am. No one should have to live through this at such a young age. I can only imagine the conflicting emotions you must feel at any random point in the day.

Stay strong Eric. I know you can.

If you need to talk then I am here for you.

(sorry I could not say more or anything better. I have never went through anything like this and can only imagine what you are truly going through)


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Old May 17th, 2012, 10:07 PM   #56
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i am really sorry for bringing this up over and over. but here for those who want an update...

As it turns out, when they got his tumor out, they actually spread the cancer. They say they may be able to treat him, but they give him ten years, if they can treat him. So, he either dies or gets "treated" and lives ten years. *sigh*

slow and painful. i wouldn't expect anything different.
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Old May 17th, 2012, 10:14 PM   #57
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it's going to be okay Matty... PM me if you ever want to talk
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Old May 17th, 2012, 11:00 PM   #58
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I am really sorry to hear that Eric...or Matty keep you guys in my thoughts.

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Old May 19th, 2012, 04:53 AM   #59
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OMG thats horrible! Stay strong love. Ive been in your place, my dad died from Lymphoma cancer a year and a half ago. I miss him like no other but Im staying strong because I know thats what he wants his little girl to do. I dont know you but Ill keep you and your dad in my prayers. God bless! Take care.

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