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Old June 23rd, 2011, 01:30 PM   #21
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Well we are lucky here in the UK.. You are now not allowed to hit your children as theres a law & guideline has been put in place few years back
as far as I'm aware, corporal punishment is legal in the UK, although not in schools
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Old June 24th, 2011, 06:06 PM   #22
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where i live its ok to spank ur kids. i dont get spanked but i had a friend who would sometimes come to school with really dark bruises on her arm. thats not even the worse thing
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Old June 25th, 2011, 12:45 PM   #23
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I have never had bruises but my legs have been red before like sore! I guess it's because im older than my brothers i grt really embarrassed! Like taking pants off is like Urgh!

My mom doesnt even get how I feel shes always like hes your step dad and he makes the rules not you:/
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Old June 25th, 2011, 01:25 PM   #24
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Obviously, getting grounded didn't stop you from not doing the things you were grounded for. So what do you expect? If you don't learn, then punishment will get worse, until eventually you get kicked out of the house for just NOT LEARNING the rules.

I only speak this from personal experience. My parents went from spanking my bottom to grounding me. When that didn't work, they began slapping me (At an older age-teenage years). When that didn't work, the threats of moving out began.

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Old June 25th, 2011, 10:09 PM   #25
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Unfortunately, even though some of the rules may be ridiculous, it's probably best if you do as your step-dad says so that you aren't punished. It's not illegal to spank you unfortunately, so you can't do anything about it really except doing as he says :/
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Old June 28th, 2011, 10:17 AM   #26
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had to say that ^^^ now to answer the post

i have never been hit by my mum not once or my dad as i grew up independant due to my family were always working abroad at the time of ages 1-10 aand i did go with them but not always but anyway i find physical punishment is ok as think your dad must feel you and your bro fighting your 13 not 3 that is embarising so in a way hes doing the same to you

grow up and mature simple

EDIT not double posting i wanted to deal with that issue above seprate before i answerd this main question


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Old June 28th, 2011, 07:29 PM   #27
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no parent should ever hit their child, it builds up so much hate in the child as it gets older, it shud be illegal everywere, does not matter wether you see it as 'punishment' or 'abuse' it is wrong either way

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Old July 15th, 2011, 03:32 PM   #28
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Old July 15th, 2011, 08:02 PM   #29
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As someone mentioned earlier, try talkin with him. However, the purpose of spanking is to be humiliating and to stop you from doing whatever you did in his mind to warrant the punishment. Instead of looking for other ways to avoid spankinh you should instead re-examine what exactly you did to warrant it and realize you shouldn't do it.

For example, fighting in public with your brother, that is inappropriate behavior so you were punished for it.

Sometimes it takes the recognition that maybe you are doing something wrong and not everyone else.

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Old July 15th, 2011, 11:01 PM   #30
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Feel free to contact me if you'd like to talk. If it really is bad, what he is doing may be illegal
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Old July 15th, 2011, 11:08 PM   #31
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shoot tell him to back off or just try not to get in trouble as much like prove him wrong
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Old August 17th, 2011, 08:34 PM   #32
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i dont know if its my parents but anyone of my step parents touch me (hurtful wise) its like they are done
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Old August 22nd, 2011, 08:12 PM   #33
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This might sounds odd, but im 14 and my mom has had a bunch of bfs, if one of them dared touching me i would beat the shit out of them.
So my advice for you is fight back or just tell him no
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Old August 23rd, 2011, 01:47 AM   #34
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This might sounds odd, but im 14 and my mom has had a bunch of bfs, if one of them dared touching me i would beat the shit out of them.
So my advice for you is fight back or just tell him no
When I read the first Post, What I seem to get from this is that the kid deserves it as he is being imature fight ect, His step dad punishments are maybe a little over the top but again as it can be justified and he is not just beating up this kid because he feels like it, No real crime has been commited

Now to think about this lets see how to stop this oh yes JUST DONT FIGHT OR BE IMMATURE


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Old January 10th, 2012, 05:44 AM   #35
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Where I am your only allowed to hit your children On there ass. My dad used to hit me on my ass while i was 13 still until he learnt I hit back. I dont reccomend you hit your step dad! I just used to SOFTLY kick him in the back of the thigh but hard enough he knew I did it out of a power scale from 1 to 10 probally a 4 or 3 it kinda worked like a charm I only ever had to hit him twice.

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Old January 10th, 2012, 10:11 AM   #36
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Please don't bump old threads.
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