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Old February 9th, 2010, 12:02 AM   #41
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I would say that the good thing about getting abused, is that I know how it feels, and I know I Would never ever do it or something like it to someone else, also if I see someone abusing someone, I will not just say don do it, I would tell him how it feels, and how is that person damaging the other.
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Old February 9th, 2010, 03:50 AM   #42
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All of these are great reply's, and I have nothing that I could add to it.

In my situation, I wouldn't say it was "good", but it changed the course of my life in the future forever, without me knowing. I met the person I'm with as a direct outcome from it. I have a family and a wonderful life.. but it would have ended up much worse if I hadn't met them.

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Old February 9th, 2010, 06:11 AM   #43
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"Good" is a hard word to define in this case.
I'm not talking like, flowers and sunshine and rainbows good.
I see it as good as it can help create a stronger you, it can help you change things that are happening around you... and blah blah blah.
I'm tired now, sorry.

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Think about it.
The most we can do is help those who need our help. To change the things we can change, and to stop the things that we can stop.
Not retaliate violently to the person, because that'd be hypocritical, as much as they deserve it.

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Old February 9th, 2010, 10:57 PM   #44
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makes you emotionally stronger... and well phsycially too .
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Old February 16th, 2010, 06:59 PM   #45
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Wow, theres alot of disagreement on heree..

I get what everyone is sayingg, its a pretty hard question to answer, while the abuse is happeningg its neverrr a "good" thing, but i guess when its all over, years later the person could be strongerr as from learning from the abuse?
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Old February 16th, 2010, 09:57 PM   #46
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well it can make you stronger.. just read a child called it, the lost boy, and a man called dave, all by david pelzer. but if your not strong, it can weaken you. i think its bad, but i was just giving a perspective from both sides. btw how did the starter get banned after 2 posts?

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Old February 18th, 2010, 05:53 PM   #47
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I abuse children when I'm drunk.
Only if they aggravate me.
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Old February 20th, 2010, 08:14 PM   #48
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There is nothing good about abuse.
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Old February 20th, 2010, 10:19 PM   #49
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Fighting threw the nightmares and horrible triggers, it's made me a stronger person.
Although it's fucked up my social skills pretty bad, but threw my abuse, it's made me understand people better.

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Yes. Iknow it is hard to see the good that comes out of it but there is good. It ultimatley will make you stronger and will help you be able to help others going through it. Im going to take the strength i have gained through dealing with my childhood sexual abuse from my stepfather and use it to help me speak out agianst abuse. Remember this honey. You are so much more than a victim. YOU ARE A SURVIVOR!


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Old December 20th, 2011, 04:26 PM   #51
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