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Old January 30th, 2011, 01:56 AM   #41
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YES i think u should if it gets uncomfy then dont talk or see him anymore pple can change i bet he feels real bad for what he did
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Old January 30th, 2011, 02:13 AM   #42
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is that illegal? just wonderin..
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Old February 1st, 2011, 10:49 PM   #43
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Okay, so my uncle whom is 6 years older than me did things to me for a number of years, some things i liked, other things i didn't like, this all started when i was around 3-5 and ended when i was about 11. To me, my uncle is like an older brother to me, we still hang out, and everything, he did get in trouble with my parents when they found out, but whatever. i think my situation is different because my uncle isn't as old as your uncle, even though i have a strong friendship with my uncle, your uncle did worse because he wasn't an ignorant kid like my uncle was.... but even than, should i be hanging out with my uncle?
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Old February 1st, 2011, 10:56 PM   #44
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Don't try to reach out to someone who hurt you, even a family member. Perhaps talk to you parents on this issue if you do want to see him. If you do talk to him through letters but not actually meeting him in flesh and blood. sorry to hear what happened, but you should know that your really brave for wanting to see him again.
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Old February 2nd, 2011, 12:55 PM   #45
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I don't see the problem here. If you don't feel violated then there is really nothing else to discuss. If you feel comfortable and ok with what happened why not get back in touch with him?

Fools who wear their hearts proudly on their sleeves, who cannot control their emotions, who wallow in sad memories and allow themselves to be provoked this easily -- weak people, in other words -- they stand no chance.
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Old February 2nd, 2011, 09:59 PM   #46
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Uh.... NO. Anything done to you sexually while you were underage(and if you had no consent to it), thats a big no no.
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Old February 6th, 2011, 01:07 AM   #47
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I was told by my parents that my uncle did something inappropriate to me, and I swear to god. Every detail of that day came back to me. But my uncle lives really far away and I want to be back in contact with him, is it the right idea? I'm 16 years old
I get what you're saying about how you want to be in contact with him, but I'd recommend not. If your parents stopped contacting him, I think it would be wrong of you to try. He abused you as a young child, and I think that that should be reason enough to stay away from him.
However, you can do what you want, nobody should try and stop you. Just if you decide to, be careful.
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Old February 9th, 2011, 06:32 PM   #48
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It seems like people are not reading the thread properly. Mike clearly explained that he did not experience any form of abuse from his uncle. Had that been the case, I would have agreed that he should stay away from him.

@Mike: Given the circumstance you laid out and what you said regarding this, if you're going to be in contact with him, try to start with just talking on the phone and then try visiting him with permission from parents if you want to see him that bad. Like others, however, I would advise if your uncle tried to do anything harmful to you, you should call authority on him and you should definitely NOT engage in any form of sexual relationships whatsoever since your uncle is part of your family and if you're really that worried about potential abuse (Which I don't think you are, but just to make sure you remain safe), try to bring a relative or a parent with you.
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Old February 16th, 2011, 11:13 PM   #49
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He sounds creepy I wouldn't
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Old February 17th, 2011, 08:51 AM   #50
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You shouldn't. It would mean a bit of trouble with him. Besides, he probably feels bad enough that he is a sex offender to his own kin.
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Old February 17th, 2011, 12:49 PM   #51
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I understand all of it was consensual and what not... Obviously the choice is up to you, and it's probably not my place to say...

But if your parents were to know your feelings about your wanting to reconnect, how would they feel? I mean, something like that could really damage relationships... wouldn't it? Be careful on your decision, is all I can say, really.

Your uncle shouldn't be doing stuff like that at all, imo. :/ Especially at your age, and stuff. Consensual or not.

But that's just my opinion, so I'm not trying to sound bad, or anything.
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Old February 19th, 2011, 07:09 PM   #52
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i woudnt do it but its up to you if you want to talk to him make sure you do it with your parents there supervising and if anything hapens again report it EMIDIETLY

no question crosses the line ask anything
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Old February 20th, 2011, 10:26 AM   #53
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Well I mean I was 13 when this one thing happened, i agreed to what he wanted to do to me, I've moved on from it and I'm ready to start a brand new and mature relationship/friendship with my uncle. I mean after all of that happened, he told my stepdad and i believe he moved to Washington state.*
I can kind of understand that. Just be careful.
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