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Old March 8th, 2015, 03:20 AM   #1
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My gf and a have a lot of sex but I still wank a lot. Do you think my gf will be angry if she found out about the wanking, or should I be open and tell her?
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Old March 8th, 2015, 03:49 AM   #2
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This is private thing and you don't need to tell her. There are some girls who get jealous about this, they think you cheat on them although you don't cheat on someone with masturbation. You could try to mention masturbation in general and with her reaction you would know if its safe or not
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Old March 8th, 2015, 02:41 PM   #3
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She shouldn't be angry I mean, why would she be jealous? It's your body and you can do whatever you want.

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Old March 8th, 2015, 03:56 PM   #4
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I don't think you should tell her if she doesn't ask you. If she does then tell her the truth. Personally I don't see a problem with it and she shouldn't be mad. Where she could get mad is if you're wanking to porn. I don't care, but some girls don't like it.

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Old March 8th, 2015, 08:53 PM   #5
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I don't think you should tell her if she doesn't ask you. If she does then tell her the truth. Personally I don't see a problem with it and she shouldn't be mad. Where she could get mad is if you're wanking to porn. I don't care, but some girls don't like it.
this advice is perfect. it depends on your gf. personally since I am dating, I try not to use pron even though I still do jack off. the fact is your gf probably knows you jack off. I never have to tell my gf I do, I am pretty sure it is just assumed

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Old March 8th, 2015, 04:33 PM   #6
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Only if you want to have even more sex with her and she refuses.
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Old March 8th, 2015, 04:46 PM   #7
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Depends on her personality.

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Old March 8th, 2015, 07:39 PM   #8
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if she ask you tell her if she doesnt ask dont tell her

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Old March 10th, 2015, 08:29 AM   #9
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im with everybody else on this, i dont see the need to tell her anything, its not like you are cheating on her or anything. besides, i am sure she knows you probably masturbate when you arent with her, so i wouldnt stress it. tell her if you want, but theres no need to.

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Old March 10th, 2015, 08:45 AM   #10
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I'm sure she already assumes this and probably does it herself. No need to bring it up.
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Old March 10th, 2015, 05:35 PM   #11
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She shouldn't be angry I mean, why would she be jealous? It's your body and you can do whatever you want.
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I'm sure she already assumes this and probably does it herself. No need to bring it up.
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Old January 3rd, 2018, 12:36 PM   #12
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should be open to you masturbating
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Old January 3rd, 2018, 02:41 PM   #13
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I would guess that most girls and guys my age are masturbating on a regular basis anyways so I don’t think it’s a big deal either way. I wouldn’t be upset if my bf did it because I already assume he’s doing it. I don’t know, everyone is different so she may be a bit reserved about it. I agree with people above who said not to say anything unless she asks, and to be honest.

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Old January 3rd, 2018, 05:52 PM   #14
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It's normal, you could tell her, but don't feel obligated.
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Old January 3rd, 2018, 07:40 PM   #15
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I don't think there's a need to share what you do. Pretty much everyone our age has urges and fantasies, and that leads to something physical. Unless those urges are played out beyond the two of you, together or individually, I think it's perfectly normal.

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