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Old October 21st, 2017, 01:02 PM   #1
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A question for both girls and boys -- Have you been sexually harassed?

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For me, it has been boys who don't understand that no means no. Maybe they thought that I eventually would say yes. But I didn't.

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Old October 21st, 2017, 01:55 PM   #2
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I have never been sexually harassed. I am lucky. It must be a very hard thing to experience... Being put down like that. Those boys didn't understand the consequences of their actions.

However, that is why we have law enforcement. I hope you're doing well recovering from that bad experience, but to all who experience sexual harassment, do not be afraid to contact the police. The offender deserves punishment for causing you to suffer for their own gain. If the police will not do anything, just know that everyone who harasses others will suffer punishment for their actions in one way or another.
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Old October 21st, 2017, 03:11 PM   #3
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Its been a while since I spoke openly about this here. Maybe itll do someone some good if I do a bit again

Yeah, me to, was a lot more than harassment. Not sure it sounds appropriate to tell my “story” here but I’ll leave it that the statistics seem correct in my case that the offender(s) are most likely to be known, or close trusting family members.

All I can say to others in the same shoes is you aren’t alone, and talk about it. Therapy comes in many forms, and don’t let them get away with it. If you do, they WILl keep,doing it to you, or someone else.

Be brave, not embarrassed by it. Doesn’t mean jack shit about sexuality. Stand up for your rights and put a stop to this awful form of violence

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Old October 21st, 2017, 03:16 PM   #4
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It sounds been a while since I spoke openly about this here. Maybe itll do someone some good if I do a bit again

Yeah, me to, was a lot more than harassment. Not sure it sounds appropriate to tell my ďstoryĒ here but Iíll leave it that the statistics seem correct in my case that the offender(s) are most likely to be known, or close trusting family members.
I think it IS appropriate for you to say whatever you want to.

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Old October 21st, 2017, 09:16 PM   #5
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There was a boy who would constantly want to grab my butt when I was in ninth grade.

Luckily, we eventually moved away and I will never see him again.
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Old October 21st, 2017, 11:08 PM   #6
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I was sexually abused first as a kid age 6-7 by a family member of the foster family I lived at.

Later in my teens I was repeatedly sexually harrassed and even rape just due to the fact that other males felt that since I was openly gay I wanted to have sex with any guy.

I was always an easy victim with now stable family to back me up and from a social background where it always was highly unlikely that I would go to the police and they believe me and take action.
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Old October 31st, 2017, 09:20 AM   #7
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Yes, use to get it a lot on the way to school before I started secondary (high school?) school. Used to get the bus and older guys would always 'happen' to sit next to me so they could 'casually' rub against my leg or against my chest, even before I hit puberty. Nothing else happened, but it still always weirded me out. Glad I don't have to get that bus. Still get catcalled on the way to school though.

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Old October 31st, 2017, 07:12 PM   #8
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Yes, use to get it a lot on the way to school before I started secondary (high school?) school. Used to get the bus and older guys would always 'happen' to sit next to me so they could 'casually' rub against my leg or against my chest, even before I hit puberty. Nothing else happened, but it still always weirded me out. Glad I don't have to get that bus. Still get catcalled on the way to school though.

That's terrible

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Old November 25th, 2017, 11:16 AM   #9
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Yes, use to get it a lot on the way to school before I started secondary (high school?) school. Used to get the bus and older guys would always 'happen' to sit next to me so they could 'casually' rub against my leg or against my chest, even before I hit puberty. Nothing else happened, but it still always weirded me out. Glad I don't have to get that bus. Still get catcalled on the way to school though.
Same here but luckily I can walk most days, but yeah these guys always stare and some make comments
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Old November 6th, 2017, 03:23 PM   #10
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A question for both girls and boys -- Have you been sexually harassed?

Tell your story here.

For me, it has been boys who don't understand that no means no. Maybe they thought that I eventually would say yes. But I didn't.
I think what with some boys they dont get it that no means no or stop means stop and doest meant do or try something else.

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Old November 9th, 2017, 05:56 PM   #11
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I think it is true when they say that harassment/rape is more about power than sex. I have been groped by girls without my permission, but never felt harassed or assaulted. because i never felt that they had power over me.
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Old November 12th, 2017, 08:02 PM   #12
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I think it is true when they say that harassment/rape is more about power than sex. I have been groped by girls without my permission, but never felt harassed or assaulted. because i never felt that they had power over me.
Itís true. And itís not always about how you feel, but it can. If they feel they have the power then they can satisfy their need they are striving for. Thatís why itís really good to not let them do that, unless you welcome it, but thatís different
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Old November 18th, 2017, 10:37 PM   #13
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Ah i was sexually assaulted by my grandfather 2 years ago hes not allowed to see me or my siblings anymore so thats good ^^
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Old November 25th, 2017, 08:11 AM   #14
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Some random girl slapped me on my ass as in the hallway and she said, "nice". lol
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Old November 25th, 2017, 09:56 AM   #15
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Some random girl slapped me on my ass as in the hallway and she said, "nice". lol
You find this funny?
Not trying to sound rude here but you might like what was done to you or find it funny. But there are many people (and other posters before you) who don’t and is a real life issue for themselves.
Sure if it was a friend doing something as a joke or something like that is one thing
But we’re talking about people who’ve had stuff done to them they didn’t welcome.
Not a laughing matter bro....
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You find this funny?
Not trying to sound rude here but you might like what was done to you or find it funny. But there are many people (and other posters before you) who donít and is a real life issue for themselves.
Sure if it was a friend doing something as a joke or something like that is one thing
But weíre talking about people whoíve had stuff done to them they didnít welcome.
Not a laughing matter bro....
chill bruh
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Old November 25th, 2017, 02:22 PM   #17
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Luckily the things that have happened to me were nothing more then "inappropriate" compared to what a lot of other people go through. Guys have brushed up against me and "accidently" touched my boobs and butt, I get my bra strap "snapped", and boys are always looking up my skirt.
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A question for both girls and boys -- Have you been sexually harassed?

Tell your story here.

For me, it has been boys who don't understand that no means no. Maybe they thought that I eventually would say yes. But I didn't.
Well idk if this is harassment or not but their was a guy i was dating and he kept on grabbing me and i would tell him not now but he would just keep doing it.
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I was in junior high and inside public bus to get home. This guy touching rub my leg and saying something that I do not understand. Possibly drunk but I dont smell any. But he immediately jumping out when the bus stop in traffic jam before next stop. weird.
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Abused, no, but you can classify it as harassment. I was at a party and some drunk gay dude grabbed/slapped my bum. I told him to cut it out and that I am not into men. He apologized, called me to the bar and bought me a drink as an apology. I do not feel traumatized in any way but I found it degrading, just like slapping a girl you don't know on the bum for no reason.

Someone would have felt harassed and/or abused. It's all a matter of how it happened and no two cases can be judged the same.

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