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Old September 26th, 2017, 05:41 PM   #5
noah.whynot
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Name: Noah
Join Date: September 16, 2017
Location: Canada
Age: 16
Gender: Male
Default Re: Shit hit the fan.

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Originally Posted by Hermes View Post
So as someone who doesn't know this b/f and only has what you have written to go it, it does like this b/f has to be in control of the relationship rather than being equal partners and some of his actions sound like attempts to manipulate you.

How sure are you that the Leukaemia is real? Could he have made it up specifically so you would go easy on him and would do his bidding rather than insist on a more even balance in the relationship?
I don't want to sound like a jerk, so I'm sorry to say that this was my first inclination as well; he sounds very controlling, so is this his ultimate way of doing that to you? Even if it's true, that doesn't mean you have to be his boyfriend. You could be a friend to lend him support. Whether true or not, it sounds like emotional blackmail to me. Just my opinion.
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