I say that you don't have to if you don't want to. It's fine, and there's something called male bonding
, and they might just be really confy with this or just really horny all the time
You don't have to do anything, and you don't have to tell anyone. Just do what you want to do.
...and give me the address and money for the gas to drive there
Now, I'm confused, shouldn't this be in the Gay Bar? It ain't puberty related.