Re: i fell stupid about this
I always jest kinda go in with my lips sorta loose. Then, when I make contact I open slightly, and slip it in. While in the promised land, I like to explore this wonderous place (don't like try steal her ubula with your tongue lol). Just kinda make contact with her tongue and move anyway you like (as I do it, the way she likes). Then, when you are very comfortable with this, and your partner, you can cop a feel or go for 2nd.