Scared of sex?
Alright, I couldn't find a better place to post this, so feel free to move it, mods.
I have no shame, so here it is: is it normal for guys to be scared of sex? Like, to the point of refusing it multiple times? I'm just worried that maybe this is a problem I should be seeking greater help with or if it's just a phase we all go through.
I'm not quite sure what it is about sex that scares me, but I have some ideas. Apparently when I was in kindergarten I was raped in a public restroom. I don't remember a bit of it, but there are a lot of things about me I could see tying back to that. Also, I think that I might be scared of how experiencing sex might change my world, you know?