May 11th, 2006, 01:19 PM
Tears & Smiles
Join Date: March 22, 2005
Re: Cutter how should i tell
Originally Posted by koler
I don't feel sorry for you, nor do I feel sorry for the "depressed" teenager.
all teenagers well go threw a period of 'depression'
and its nothing.
it means nothing.
its just what happens.
some people can handle it.
some people can't
If I didnt care, I wouldnt say anything.
you need to reolize how stupid cutting is.
and then maybe you will but the razor down and say "i'm fucking retarded for doing that"
cutting IS seriously retarded.
you know how I could tell the people who cut because they had problems, from those who cut for the attention.
some would hide it, and others would use it as a weapon.
you say something offensive, or they break up with a significant other and bam, its "I'm gonna go home and cut myself" (not literal words)
good god, why don't you adverstise to the entire world that your only problem is acceptence to your friends.
if your going to let what a 13/14/15 year old says get to you.
then you are weak.
you are a fool.
you need to get a reality cheak, what they say has no relevence.
they are not gods.
they don't see the error of there ways.
and here, a site you have come to for refuge, where people try to help you..........
you shun us, and defend your cutting.
I thought you wanted to stop.
but you don't.
because you don't actually have a reason.
you just think you do.
koler you are out of line. we dont know girl wrestler or the problems that caused her to get involved in self harm. you come across as such an ignorant judgemental git by dismissing other peoples problems like this. I for one have difficulties with depression and (in the past) with self harm too. It was not for nothing. It meant something. And no I did not "use it as a weapon". For your info there are teenagers out there with real problems that cause them to get depressed and cause themsevles harm.
I agree with whispher Request Lock
Girl wrestler, i used to cut too. I understand how hard it is to stop and to stay strong when you get the urge to start again. If you want to chat or anything just pm me hunni.
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