I'm 14 and I've had 3. I think that for the most part if guys really want to have relationships in Middle School then they will get them. In my experience girls start to be interested in relationships before guys and they're dying to get one. One of the girls who I went out with said basically that she would start liking someone if they told her they liked her. This was awesome considering she was incredibly hot. This may not be the same for a public middle school (I go to a private school) but I definetly think that if you set your mind to it you can get girlfriend. Being attractive helps too.