Originally Posted by krzwis
Will you remember to love her for who she is in her heart and not her naked body? Will you love her? Will you not use her just for sex?
Sorry, had to quote that. It needs to be read again.
Anyways, maybe just talk to her, her feelings about it, don't rush up to her say, "Hey you wanna have sex?" and then rush into it. Is she 14 also? Understand that she may not be ready, accept that. If you truely care for her, you'll wait until she's ready and totally comfortable.