Ok, like. If I don't go up and down the tip, not the skin, where the skin ends, but not right by the hole. If I don't go by the tip, I can't orgasm. If I just go up and down under the tip it feels like nothing really. But if I go fast by the tip for minutes, then I have an orgasm, and get all tight. Wierd thing: Right after I orgasm, it doesn't feel good, it just tickles. Then once it's soft, its fine again.