don't wanna seem mean or nothing....and i'm sorry i gotta tell you this but
most of the time parents are right, and they can tell if things in relationships aren't going smooth.
Sure, they are tough but they're just telling you not to be so fast or harsh. They might be overdoing on the punishment side but hey, its better to have parents that care than those who don't care (belive me, later in life you'll be happy you do)
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. "
-1 Corinthians 13:4-8