my parents are 3 years apart, i dated a second year colledge girl in the summer of grade 11/12. In grade 11, most of the people i dated were in grade 9.
Its not concidered Pedo phile unless he's actually sexualy attracted or physically attracked to her.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. "
-1 Corinthians 13:4-8