how'd she find you do it?
truth be told, we found out we both do it. But because we try to live a christian sorta lifestyle, we're both trying to kick the habbit, so we're actully both in a war against it (if that makes any sense).
She wasn't too offended, not at all actully.
Then again, i broke it to her in the 3rd month and before that we promised not to ever have sex, not to make out, etc till marridge.
Don't bring it up to her, don't ask if she does it, unless you two are having a really dirty and flirty relationship.
But at the same time, don't act like "she finding out" has affected your life....just continue life with her normally....and try to minimize the masturbating
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. "
-1 Corinthians 13:4-8