say no...simply put....what ever he says...say no
say no until say.......you get married or engaged....or make a wierd time limit like 4 years or so
belive me...sex is not cool. and i know other guys might look at my and say "is he gay?" for belive that...but its true....sex is not cool, it destroys a relationship, makes it more about physical pleasure and sex rather than actual emotion and love
say no to him, say not till wedding night
and if he says "well....i'm not gonna get married" or "but thats too long" tell him 'Tough luck, your gonna have to wait and i'm never changing my mind'
be in control dude, don't let him push you over your limit....you'll regret it if you do
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. "
-1 Corinthians 13:4-8