I think ur bro will accept u for ur personality, and not for ur sexual preference. I think ur brother might be insecure because people who hate gays are just scared of gay people because they think they will become gay. I think u shuld explain to ur bro ur feelings.
Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." (John 14:6)
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Forever praise Him
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