Maybe you were apathetic towards gays and now you're so empathetic that you're applying the sexuality to yourself. If men disgust you, then I don't see how you would be gay.
Sometimes things like this happen and you get extremely confused even if it seems small. I don't think you're gay, but the only one who can answer that is you. If you can be witha man and like it, then you're either bi or gay. Since you like women, then I doubt that you're gay, but possibly bi. However, from what you've said, I really think you're straight, but reevaluating your sexuality in a huge way.
\"You don\'t really know a person until you don\'t know what to think of them.\"-Chris A.K.A. ME