Re: How did you first find out you were gay or bi?
i realized about two years ago, that i was attracted to girls physically as well as emotionally. i guess it just kind of hit me that i looked them in a way like "i want them" and not like an innocent "they're pretty." i noticed later that, although i can fall in love with both a male and a female, i was not attracted to males physically and i only was attracted to certain personalities and faces of the feminine ones. so i identify myself as a lesbian.
i've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now and we've gone the whole nine yards so i am 110% sure i like sex with girls.