I just want to say, this isn't really a "Gay Phase." Being attracted to sexual "stuff" with other guys is not gay. You are probably gay if you answer yes to either of these quetions...
1. Could you see yourself dating a guy?
2. Could you not live without a guy?
That is what I heard at least. So this is not really a "Gay Phase" as you are calling it, but more like a "sexual experimentation phase."