I agree with David ^^ the best thing you can do is jsut talk to her.
Tell her how you feel about it.
You mentioned you have to beg her to do a few things?
Has she talked about how she feels doing them? because the fact that you have to beg for them suggests she is uncomfortable, yet she still does them for you.
Im not saying you should do anything what so ever that youre uncomfortable with, just try and think about it from her point of view and the things that she does for you.
Like David said before though, the best thing you can do is talk to her
Maybe the two of you could reach a compromise?
Anyway, goodluck with things!
[Wouldnt this be better in the relationship forum?
What do you guys think?]