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Old December 21st, 2005, 09:31 PM  
dying lullaby
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tell her that you think she draws things out too long(aka cant let things go)

tell her that you two fighting all of the time hurts you and your relationship and ask if you two can both try to work on it

example
both of you resolve to stop before things get heated and decide (outloud & nicely) if its really worth getting into a fight over...
or
when things do get to heated ask if you can both calm down and have a reasonible conversation.


my mom and i used to fight so horribly i moved out of my house but we got past it by doing the things i suggested among other things. try it, it might work.

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