Originally Posted by jerry
Hello again, i'm back with another problem.
More disturbing than the first problem (no ejacutlation) , I'm now not able to get an erection at all, which REALLY worries me. When I do get one, it's random and dissapers fast. What could be causing this???
At first glance, my guess is that you must not be sufficiently aroused in order to get an erection. Sometimes, if you focus so much on getting aroused that in itself is a turn off. Let things happen naturally, and you should get an erection with no problem.
The second reason why I think you could be experiencing problems is if you have a lot of things on your mind which can be distracting from your sexual feelings. Nothing kills the sexual mood faster than bad feelings or a lot on your mind. Clearly, if you having things bothering you, then you need to address them otherwise you will find it most difficult to get aroused thus getting an erection.