I'm so embarrased. I tend to read too fast and I didn't see the "NOT" in there...I thought he said
"how would i go about getting a popular g/f because i wanna become popular"
My mistake, sorry
I would go with Ambers advice...it's nice to be chased because you feel......desired.....but it's never good to smother a girl....give her room to desire you back lol Good luck
and I'm sorry again