Meh, if you're attracted to dudes and want to have sex with them you're gay :\.. I have best friends, I love them, but I'd never want to have sex with them because they're guys.. So when you think about it, sexuality like the name says, is all about sex..
It's not like if you're attracted to guys, but there's this girl that's real nice to you you're going to get with the girl just because she's nice to you.. If that was the case I'd of married my friends.