Hmm...I like to put up my post count..but most of the time i just ignore it and look evry so often... I have to agree wit punk'd tho...posting on topics you know nothing about is annoying billie.joe.gd. (what does the gd stand for anyway??)
As for the fingering issue...i would imagine that perhaps your bf has long fingers or your cervix is simply a lot shorter than most, - my cervix is below average. Take it gentle, that's my advice. The cervix is a sensitive area.
And never be afraid to speak your mind. (speaking of which, must kick my bf's ass..)