Long time ago I thought you could only be one or the other. And I always thought men and women were both incredibly attractive and sexually appealing. But I always told myself I was straight(because I was set on having-not adopting-kids). But right after reminding myself i was like noo I'm gay men are so great. And everyday I would beat myself up over this until one day I heard my friend say she was bisexual while we were talking and I just couldn't help but saying me too. From then on I have just been attracted to whomever I felt whenever I felt.