Re: How did you first find out you were gay or bi?
I think I knew for a while before I ever actually thought about it--I knew I was different. I knew that I got crushes on pretty girls in elementary school, feelings that i couldn't quite explain, but I didn't know that they were crushes until middle school when girls started describing their feelings for cute guys. They would say things like "I always want to be with him, i get super nervous and i get butterflies" and things like that. I realized that those feelings they described were how i felt about some girls, and i'd never felt that way about a guy. Of course it took a long time even after that to come to terms with it and actually admit it to myself.